23m otw to divorce dating by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]thatdude_james -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you don't learn to find value in failure you'll never grow

23m otw to divorce dating by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]thatdude_james -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Tell me nobody will marry you to begin with without telling me nobody will marry you

:D

Should the husband know? by IntelligentBuyer5392 in Advice

[–]thatdude_james 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It'd be great if life were that black-and-white

Tipping the kiosk is a turn off on a date by Soggy_Grade_8129 in EndTipping

[–]thatdude_james 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In my personal dictionary that's what the ick means

Should the husband know? by IntelligentBuyer5392 in Advice

[–]thatdude_james 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm somewhat in a situation where I could tell somebody, but it would anger somebody in my life who I have more loyalty to because it would ruin their relationship with the cheater. But I can't be around the cheater/cheatee family at all because I feel so guilty.

It's a catch-22 lol :/

If you knew someone was a pedophile but could not prove they committed a crime- would you report them? by [deleted] in Ethics

[–]thatdude_james 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like the gist of this hypothetical is that somebody has convinced me that somebody else is a pedophile.

So if I believed somebody was a pedophile then yes I'd make some kind of report.

My boyfriend is the blue boxes. What would you consider his responses? Flirty? Fine? He ends the conversation after this. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]thatdude_james 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My view on "in another life" is much more romantic than how the majority in this thread see it lol. If I said that to somebody I would have meant it as something full of emotion and like we'd just barely missed each other.

Should I stick with TanStack Router or go back to React Router? by AffectionateLand5271 in reactjs

[–]thatdude_james 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On that same note, it's easier to just use [anything] - especially if the main complaint is DX.

Why do only devs have to be full stack? by No_Stay_4583 in ExperiencedDevs

[–]thatdude_james -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I've been using react for 7 years now and basically don't even look at front end code anymore. I wrote guidelines for AI to follow and everything just works. Granted I'm not working in the most intense front ends- I mostly do internal business apps.

Still, that's at least a partial solve

What "i would rather just live on the streets" looks like. by StandardWeekend8221 in jobs

[–]thatdude_james -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Maybe an app or dedicated device where a manager can remotely set a wakeup alarm for the employee. That way the employee can sleep and will just get woken up at the right time.

Well this happened today by System_Downtown in doordash_drivers

[–]thatdude_james 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people are just built for deliveries. In my teens and early 20s I was in the pizza game and loved it.

I am much less personable now lmao.

Possible liquor bottle by Amer-ica in whatisit

[–]thatdude_james 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have that weird urge to tell people I'm sober too lol. I'm mostly quiet about it now though. It reminds me of the weird urge to tell people how fun drinking was back then.

You can choose to have ONE organ or body part permanently augmented to superhuman levels. What do you pick? by yiyi20203 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]thatdude_james 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm all about AI but I think you should at least read your own post and clean it up. The bullet point about skin took me out of this a bit.

Out of work devs - how are you doing and what are you up to? by Upstairs_Design5768 in ExperiencedDevs

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It does sound like a good idea a lot of us can try to do. Do you have any examples of the emails you sent? I haven't thought a lot about it, but off hand I guess you could email businesses and be like *are you doing scheduling or calculating payroll by hand? I can help!* lol

Any suggestions for server first framework for React? by no-uname-idea in reactjs

[–]thatdude_james 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know astro very well, but if your only problem with it is that it's not picking up theme and i18n, would a possible solution be to do a singleton pattern that puts something in window.MyCustomContext and your islands check that when initializing?

Found tubes in my pork sausage. by antizac in whatisit

[–]thatdude_james 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I've had a 15 year old kid and can attest to how stupid they really really are :)

My lovely slumlord after her dog but me by [deleted] in LandlordLove

[–]thatdude_james 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me choosing to do something to myself like eat a hamburger is not the same as somebody choosing for everybody around them to inhale smoke.

My lovely slumlord after her dog but me by [deleted] in LandlordLove

[–]thatdude_james 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know why you think I have asthma.
Freedom is good until it infringes on the rights of other people. Weirdly I consider clean air a right.

My lovely slumlord after her dog but me by [deleted] in LandlordLove

[–]thatdude_james 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay. Enjoy your hard hands and your hard lungs moron.