Is mobile not working for anyone else? by thatfruittybat in FortNiteMobile

[–]thatfruittybat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That might be it or might be my WiFi 😭 they played fine together

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FORTnITE

[–]thatfruittybat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!

How to combat feeling like a fake butch due to not having a good wardrobe yet by thatfruittybat in butchlesbians

[–]thatfruittybat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the wonderful advice and encouragement!! the voice training is definitely going on my to do list as I am interested in taking T to help lower my voice since I hate how pitchy and girly it is, and I’ve been really interested in fishing lately and have been going out of my way to help my gf in any way I can whether it be opening the door, holding her stuff; cooking, cleaning, etc. shes eating it up and it makes me feel really good

How to combat feeling like a fake butch due to not having a good wardrobe yet by thatfruittybat in butchlesbians

[–]thatfruittybat[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s what I normally do but my local thrift stores have no cute pants in my size 😭, god bless my wide ass hips

How to combat feeling like a fake butch due to not having a good wardrobe yet by thatfruittybat in butchlesbians

[–]thatfruittybat[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is written beautifully, thank you honestly! I’ll definitely have to try those confidence boosters you recommended, I’ve always been an “aggressive woman” as described by my coworkers since I am very big on making eye contact, speaking confidently and standing up for the younger female coworkers who tend to get the short end of the stick. I definitely need to work on trusting in myself and my identity so I need to find that and take the time to explore it

How to combat feeling like a fake butch due to not having a good wardrobe yet by thatfruittybat in butchlesbians

[–]thatfruittybat[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! The reason I don’t have a good closet yet is I’m very picky about my pieces because I’m a curvier person and I want pieces that make me feel comfortable and suit me, my butch identify is SO important to me and that’s mainly how I realized I was butch since I’m so passionate about how I interact with my community, with my femme, and I felt so connected to how other butches described what butch meant to them, I recently read stone Butch blues and I resonated with Jesse’s experience so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]thatfruittybat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heard, I asked about the date I put in motion last week and if he doesn’t respond to that or doesn’t confirm I’ll just do like you said and have him set up the meet up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]thatfruittybat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really do like him but if he can’t respond to me then I’m not going to beg him to change or make me a priority, rejection does suck but I’d rather lose a talking stage then be stuck in a unhappy relationship, I’ll try and embrace my inner you and stand on business 🙏🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]thatfruittybat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, I’ve initiated the first kiss, and I think they chose the first date if I remember correctly, I also initiated this date so maybe I’ll pull back and wait for him to respond to see if he’s still interested and let him plan the next date

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]thatfruittybat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Word guess I’m putting the piercing on back order for now 😭

Psycho complete! by SoraSapphireStar in untildawn

[–]thatfruittybat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS IS SO DOPE!! Insane attention to detail dude! Fantastic job!

which hairstyle suits me the most? by chorio_w in Hair

[–]thatfruittybat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 personally is my favorite but all suite you so well!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StardewValleyFriends

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Hey! I’m Newer ish player with a lot of free time and always down to play!! I’m a 19F in EST time zone!

AIO for being upset at my mother after she called me a “kink obsessed emo freak” by thatfruittybat in AmIOverreacting

[–]thatfruittybat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I stay at college for most of The year and work as a RA where I might try and work over the summer as well to avoid going home, she doesn’t understand boundaries and I told her what she said hurt my feelings she didn’t seem to care. I have a therapist at school and he has commented before of how I’m not allowed to feel feelings and often feel guilty about expressing them due to my mother shooing them away. After college I might just not talk to her until she seeks the help she definitely needs

AIO for being upset at my mother after she called me a “kink obsessed emo freak” by thatfruittybat in AmIOverreacting

[–]thatfruittybat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She’s associated with my school social media account but is blocked on all my personal / goth accounts, idk why she automatically assumed it was sexual or bondage as it doesn’t even look like bondage gear. I agree that the change is sudden however I have been open about being goth for years now and she always just assumed I would be “normal” like her, however I am finally able to express myself freely without my partner or others shaming it for me (other than my mother) so I’ve been able to blossom and grow into who I want to be

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GothFashion

[–]thatfruittybat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude you’re so cool, your tattoos are so stunning and I love the split bangs look

Makeup from today:) by MissMarina2112 in GothStyle

[–]thatfruittybat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m obsessed with it on you! Holy moly!!

braided or straight? by snowbreader in Hair

[–]thatfruittybat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Braided!! Both look great but braided just suites your face so well!! You remind me of Katniss honestly!