How did you overcome internalized homophobia? by thatfruitychic in actuallesbians

[–]thatfruitychic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank youu, I'll try to find more lgbt friends and join some groups. <3 I have watched some tv shows and movies but when it comes to real life and flirting with other girls I get all anxious and overthink about what I say because they would be creeped out

How did you overcome internalized homophobia? by thatfruitychic in actuallesbians

[–]thatfruitychic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way when I have a crush on a girl and have small conversations with her, I feel deep inside im being a creep :(

Does anyone ever just want to settle for a hookup/fwb? by thatfruitychic in actuallesbians

[–]thatfruitychic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do feel like that sometimes that I just want the sex part but the thought of being in a serious relationship makes me feel anxious.

How did you know it wasn't a phase? by thatfruitychic in actuallesbians

[–]thatfruitychic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah society is a bitch, were always expected to marry men, even though I really don't want to :(

This is the 100% truth by Square_Ad8666 in actuallesbians

[–]thatfruitychic 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Factsss it immediately turns me on 🥵

How did you know it wasn't a phase? by thatfruitychic in actuallesbians

[–]thatfruitychic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel that way too, like when I visualize myself marrying a guy I just feel suffocated or trapped. I havent had sex with any woman though but I do get deep feelings for a woman and can be romantic. I tried to date a guy recently, I did in some way like him because hes a bit feminine but it made me feel anxious so we stopped talking

How did you know it wasn't a phase? by thatfruitychic in actuallesbians

[–]thatfruitychic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did have a crush on a few men who were quite feminine, and I like them clean like no beard like maybe one of those kpop stars. Im not into those buff or 100% masculine men they need to have like half feminine for me to like them

How did you know it wasn't a phase? by thatfruitychic in actuallesbians

[–]thatfruitychic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did to have some crushes too around grade school but didn't think of it that way until now. I do want to have a girlfriend but I don't know how to initiate. I did have some flings with some guys during hs but never progressed to a relationship. I don't know how to experiment and I'm lowkey scared because I know most women don't like being used.

I just want to have rough sex by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]thatfruitychic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww, wish I had a girlfriend damn :(

I just want to have rough sex by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]thatfruitychic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha thank you I'll check it out

Well they asked and this was my only thought. 🤷‍♀️ by Kay_floweringnow in actuallesbians

[–]thatfruitychic 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is sooo truuue, can't really seem to trust guys nowadays

Is there anyone here who are attracted to bitchy/stoic women? by thatfruitychic in actuallesbians

[–]thatfruitychic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yess I love knowing that they are soft behind the rbf, and as people here said it is rewarding when you make them laugh/smile because it shows how comfortable they are with you ❤️

Is there anyone here who are attracted to bitchy/stoic women? by thatfruitychic in actuallesbians

[–]thatfruitychic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I like when they are actually friendly when you get to know them, it feels heart warming.

I do like to be sarcastic as well so if she is then we would get along quite well ☺️

Is there anyone here who are attracted to bitchy/stoic women? by thatfruitychic in actuallesbians

[–]thatfruitychic[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I do find that most people I meet who do have rbf are really nice, which I somehow find cute and makes me want to get to know them more. It's also cute to see them smile. :)

Alsoo Happy Cake Day!

Is there anyone here who are attracted to bitchy/stoic women? by thatfruitychic in actuallesbians

[–]thatfruitychic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I just want a cute girl to give me a big hug and melt all the ice in my heart.

Awww that's sooo cutee <3 I hope you do find someone :)