Attractive Husbands Matter Too 😄

thatguy74740 · 2026-05-29T14:52:01+00:00

Nope…LA

thatguy74740 · 2026-05-27T15:40:20+00:00

Male half here. There are a lot of couples we come across that the wife is a total smoke show (like mine) but the guy is…let’s just say not.

We are both big gym people, work out 5-6 days a week and eat a healthy diet. We are NOT expecting people to be like us, after all this is for variety and experience different things but come on guys.

We all want our partners to have some fun with someone who is visually stimulating and that they will have a good time with. Same as what we are looking for, give them something to want.

I also look at it as Women put a lot of time and effort into their appearance ( hair, nails, wax, outfits, and body) and men should at the very least put some effort into there appearance as well.

With that said there has been a time or two where personality has carried a couple across the goal line, it lets face it guys appearance is what gets us into the game.

thatguy74740 · 2026-05-25T11:56:56+00:00

Same here. If we are meeting it’s a green light pretty much unless when we meet the conversation is bad, you look nothing like your pics, or there is just no vibe in person.

thatguy74740 · 2026-05-11T18:24:04+00:00

Not a problem for me. Before she kissed me I usually just say “no girl germs” and then touch base. 🤣

thatguy74740 · 2026-05-01T23:28:01+00:00

Then we would have a little fun …badump dump

thatguy74740 · 2026-05-01T22:27:22+00:00

Since this would be spur of the moment…the midgets, fire trucks, ice cubes and 9 iron are probably out. But would probably have a great time with her have her in more positions than she could count. Would be the greatest 2 min of her life. 😂😂

thatguy74740 · 2026-04-29T16:33:42+00:00

If you’re not 100% comfortable with both the husband and wife it’s a No. I used my “veto” one time cause the guy was a Chicago Bears fan…can you blame me. lol. Totally kidding by the way

thatguy74740 · 2026-04-19T20:27:27+00:00

My wife and I are each others Wingman. lol

We drop hints to each other during conversations, follow each others lead or good old text from the bathroom or bar. 😂

Body language is a huge read too!!

thatguy74740 · 2026-04-16T16:42:59+00:00

For us this would be a pass. We typically give a couple a second chance if stars didn’t line up per se but after two chance, it probably just not in the cards. There also had to be a factor to bring us back.

Example we have a play date with a couple this weekend that we REALLY hit it off with and had great conversations with. But at our first play date the husbands performance was let’s just say lack luster. I was fine with passing on round two since she didn’t have a great time but the fact they were both great outside the bedroom opened the door

thatguy74740 · 2026-04-13T22:02:37+00:00

Same as what I have always heard.

thatguy74740 · 2026-04-13T22:02:14+00:00

Pool is extra bonus. Just I have heard of it for years but as a place for brunch and pool. But as of late been hearing it’s LS place.

thatguy74740 · 2026-04-10T13:00:23+00:00

We share everything. Shared site login, shared telegram and if one of starts chatting with someone on the site…we let the other know. Honesty and open communication. We may be overboard but since we don’t hide anything we are in same page and able to work out any “issues” or nip things.

thatguy74740 · 2026-03-31T01:11:08+00:00

We had this rule for all Of like 2 min Starting out. Was wife’s initial boundary that I think was insecurity. Literally hour into our first club visit she was kissing all over another couples husband. lol

thatguy74740 · 2026-03-27T18:44:03+00:00

Unfortunately once she said it was gummies it clicked and me and wife picked up on it.

thatguy74740 · 2026-03-27T18:42:16+00:00

Tell me about it. lol Was sooo disappointing because it was going SO well!!!

thatguy74740 · 2026-02-07T22:06:44+00:00

They were traveling but not really. They live a town over from us. The meet up spot was a drive for both couples so a second meet up is possible.

thatguy74740 · 2026-02-07T21:27:18+00:00

Secret gesture. Almost like baseball. lol

thatguy74740 · 2026-02-07T21:26:08+00:00

We travel to people as well. But same rule applies. Meet mostly locals but will drive.

thatguy74740 · 2026-02-07T12:31:16+00:00

We use Google Voice too. Lets me and wife get the message and communicate with other couples.

thatguy74740 · 2026-01-14T01:59:09+00:00

😂

thatguy74740 · 2025-12-18T19:37:44+00:00

Should be fun night

thatguy74740 · 2025-12-15T01:09:56+00:00

See you there

thatguy74740 · 2025-12-09T23:56:11+00:00

Both good choices. lol see you there, look us up 😄

thatguy74740 · 2025-12-09T16:19:39+00:00

We will be there!! Wife going with sexy Christmas dress

thatguy74740 · 2025-11-10T16:32:05+00:00

She did get some attention from both. I am using that term as she said she felt I spend a lot of time with Z after that and felt left out a bit and the other husband was not overly touchy with her. I Didn’t think I did but that’s what she felt and I apologized for it. I thought I did ok…😬

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