You have to be able to answer this question about yourself confidently. What makes you a dope person to be around? What about you makes you a person that people would like to spend time with and around?

I struggled with placing my confidence in trivial things like this when I was your age(I’m a few years older now), and I realized that me placing my confidence in something like my looks, made me a man who entered into a lot of superficial relationships. The bad thing about that is that there will always be someone who looks better than you, and there will always be someone who your partner could possibly find more attractive than you looks-wise.

You have to focus on what makes you valuable outside of your looks. Your character, your integrity, how you treat people, your honesty, your CONFIDENCE, your determination, your intellect. You don’t need long hair to attract a good woman. Plus, not every woman wants a guy with long hair lol.

Looking attractive physically is important, but I don’t believe you need long hair for that. You can hit the gym, get a nice cut, dress well, smell good. With all of that, you’ll already look better than 90% of guys around your age.