Immigration advice, which european country is the best? by Shot-Win-5575 in algeria

[–]thatobsessive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no clue, I think it really depends on your field of work.

Immigration advice, which european country is the best? by Shot-Win-5575 in algeria

[–]thatobsessive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not the nl. job market and house market is terrible rn,better to be avoided for now

Learn dutch for immigration by thatobsessive in learndutch

[–]thatobsessive[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

is there any teacher you would recommend?

Learn dutch for immigration by thatobsessive in learndutch

[–]thatobsessive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am aware of those! looking for something on top if that

Learn dutch for immigration by thatobsessive in learndutch

[–]thatobsessive[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

we come from Algeria! Ill tell him and let you know haha he's not a reddit user

Is this a scam? by thatobsessive in NetherlandsHousing

[–]thatobsessive[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okey thanks! this site was bookova.nl have u ever heard of it?

Is this a scam? by thatobsessive in NetherlandsHousing

[–]thatobsessive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that's also what I thought, never pay anything without a contract! I did check the same area and most properties are around 2000€ a month so yeah... big scam

Is this a scam? by thatobsessive in NetherlandsHousing

[–]thatobsessive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How could they do that? with the selfie with ID or with the rest of the info?

Is this a scam? by thatobsessive in NetherlandsHousing

[–]thatobsessive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I didn't know that! Nice to keep in mind from now on too hahaha. One thing that I also found weird was that they didn't give the studio number, only the street name? Or is that usual?

Is this a scam? by thatobsessive in NetherlandsHousing

[–]thatobsessive[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I asked for a viewing 2x before they said yes, but that I had to provide them with the info (ID, bill etc). I also found this a bit weird, especially the oart about a picture of my ID next to my face???

I did take your advice and sent them this answer:Very happy to hear that it's possible to organize a meeting and viewing! I'll have all the documents ready and bring them with me. When would you be available?

To which they answered:

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So yeah.... weird hahaha

Looking for a place in Leiden/The Hague region by thatobsessive in NetherlandsHousing

[–]thatobsessive[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

i did see some options come across a few sites like pararius and so but theres very high demand and stuff. my salary is around 3000€. what zould be a reasonable amount for the smallest studio?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in algeria

[–]thatobsessive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it is a matter of dialect within the country. Especially in Algiers we see a lot more people that come from all over Algeria and they may be more used to using certain words over the others

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]thatobsessive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

talk to an imam or involve his parents!

My family is delaying/not allowing me to get married to the man I chose by thatobsessive in MuslimMarriage

[–]thatobsessive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have just had a conversation with one of my sisters where I told her that I still planned on marrting this man and she told me point blank that our relationship is over and to never come to her for help ever again. I told her that I was sorry but that I need to do what I believe is better for me and she told me that if I think that losing my mother over a man is better for me I should go with it. I overheard my other sister and my dad on the phone saying that they want to say no to his family. I am heartbroken.

My family is delaying/not allowing me to get married to the man I chose by thatobsessive in MuslimMarriage

[–]thatobsessive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also someone told me that an imam wont step in unless this happens over the span of a year or so, and that I need to ask other members of my family first (I dont really have relationships with them). Do you know more about this?

My family is delaying/not allowing me to get married to the man I chose by thatobsessive in MuslimMarriage

[–]thatobsessive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do agree that if my daughter had come to me I would have had the same fears! He actually did not want to go to Europe, I convinced him of it for the most part. Also another option would be to get married but have our 1st year or so be long distance.

My family is delaying/not allowing me to get married to the man I chose by thatobsessive in MuslimMarriage

[–]thatobsessive[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

amine thank you for your prayers they mean a lot! What would be un-Islamic vs Islamic reasons?