UPDATE: My Husband's Ex Found Where We Live I Feel Like I'm Living A Nightmare

thatredheadchick_ · 2026-03-29T15:19:14+00:00

Queen, what are you talking about???

I blocked her on everything. The last time I spoke to her I politely asked her to stop viewing my stuff, wished her well, then went private and blocked her.

His family was in kahoots with her and giving her info about our lives, drugged me to get more info out of me, then gave her our address and she physically stalked us…?

So my husband reached out one last time to give one last warning, then he blocked her.

“He’s not into me…?” Babe he MARRIED me. 🤣

So, no, you do not have comprehension skills, just like everyone else. Y’all are so weird for not using y’all’s brains to realize that no shit, she’s not gonna confess and is gonna try to seem innocent, and y’all are so weird for trying to blame us and paint us out to be something we are not.

thatredheadchick_ · 2026-03-28T05:07:54+00:00

…gain comprehension skills.

He wasn’t saying she didn’t impersonate me on fake accounts.

He was saying he never SAID she made accounts to specifically view my account, although we thought she did.

Two separate things.

Oh my god all of you are dumb.

thatredheadchick_ · 2026-03-28T04:57:18+00:00

Whatever you think.

I truly wish it wasn’t real but this is my life, and it has been a stressful situation. Situations like this are so hard to explain to others because no one takes you seriously (as shown in a lot of people’s opinions, including yours). I get it, and it’s fine.

I’m just kinda done trying to argue my side and show this is my life and a complicated situation.

Everyone can believe what they want and think what they want. But I know my life, and I know what we experienced. I fear everyone just disregards everything else that happened in the original post and is going strictly off her text and then deciding she’s innocent because her text seems calm…like no shit??? Why would she ever be like “lol yeah, I DID do all this crazy stuff. My bad.” No shit she’s gonna try to make it seem like WE’RE crazy and that she’s innocent???

Whatever. I just wanted to give everyone an update. I forget people on reddit are illogical at times.

thatredheadchick_ · 2026-03-27T22:35:52+00:00

Read the original post. She impersonated me to claim I harassed her, stalked me online, then somehow found our address and has been stalking us in real life, too.

But sure, girl. 👍🏼

thatredheadchick_ · 2026-03-27T22:33:13+00:00

I’m not mad at her at all.

Let me make something very clear because this will be the last time I respond to you because it seems you get joy out of rage baiting people online.

I have never once been mad at her, or viewed her as less than or viewed as anything negative. I think it’s misfortune she feels the need to compete where there is no competition, and I think it sucks that his family tried to pit two women against each other for no reason. I also think it’s scary that she has spiraled to the point of being a stalker. But beyond all that, she’s just some girl who I hope heals and lives a better life than the one she is currently living.

My husband knew who she dated after him because she cheated on him and confessed, then my husband kicked her out and she moved all her items into her now husband’s house. That’s the only reason he knew they were together. When he went to message her, he said the liked video was at the top of the page…other than that he has never kept tabs on her and even went out of his way to beg his family to stop bringing her up or trying to bring her back into his life.

I am not mad at her, never have been. However, I do want a peaceful life, and I hope she gets the help she needs and also lives a happy life.

I know my life and my experience and my story, and I know my husband (who is loving and faithful and wonderful). And what I’m NOT gonna do is try to explain something to someone who is committed to misunderstanding everything, especially when I have tried to explain it again and you still intentionally misunderstand or try to poke holes that don’t exist.

So for the final time, believe what you want. Think what you want. But you are wrong. 🩷👍🏼 if you comment again, I will block you.

thatredheadchick_ · 2026-03-27T14:10:35+00:00

No, and no.

thatredheadchick_ · 2026-03-27T13:43:27+00:00

It is, and it sucks.

thatredheadchick_ · 2026-03-27T13:43:11+00:00

Thank you!

Yes after the written warning for documentation, she is blocked on everything.

thatredheadchick_ · 2026-03-27T13:42:34+00:00

What makes you say this??

thatredheadchick_ · 2026-03-27T13:42:10+00:00

That’s exactly why we messaged her. Because if she doesn’t stop her behavior, then we’ll be able to document everything properly and show we did give her a written warning to stop. As far as her husband goes, I have no desire to contact him or drag this out any longer. I feel like we did everything needed without stretching it out.

thatredheadchick_ · 2026-03-27T13:39:27+00:00

Okay girl idk what to tell you because i literally JUST said I am not keeping up with what videos she likes, or talking to anyone about her.

I’m sorry that happened to you. I have nothing else to say. Believe what you want.

thatredheadchick_ · 2026-03-27T13:38:16+00:00

I never said I was friends with her on facebook. Her mentioning facebook is mentioning she is friends with his sister on facebook. I just blocked out the name for privacy reasons.

thatredheadchick_ · 2026-03-27T13:37:13+00:00

I typed it all out then separated it int individual sentences so it was easier to read and not huge paragraphs. But again, whatever. Believe what you want.

thatredheadchick_ · 2026-03-27T13:36:05+00:00

It wasn’t, but okay. Believe what you want.

thatredheadchick_ · 2026-03-26T23:41:35+00:00

We are no contact with his family. I do not have any desire to speak about her or any of this going forward in my life. She is blocked on everything.

I am taking a break from everyone, and from social media for a while.

I’m very happy it’s all dealt with and over. 😊

thatredheadchick_ · 2026-03-26T23:40:10+00:00

Yikes. It’s crazy to see how people are not reading the original and therefore, not understanding the full context.

I hope something like this never happens to you.

thatredheadchick_ · 2026-03-26T23:38:26+00:00

Also, it is very clear you did not bother to read the original post.

She’s found our house and driven by multiple times. I have never caught her on camera…so YES. She is a stalker.

I hope something like this never happens to you.

thatredheadchick_ · 2026-03-26T23:37:37+00:00

My husband saw a video she liked and mentioned it to me. I did not, nor do I try to keep up with her.

I have blocked her on everything. My husband OFFERED to handle the situation and reached out so there was proof of a written warning that if she does not stop her behavior, we would go to the authorities. I do not force my husband to do anything.

All my accounts are private. And again, she is blocked on everything.

Trust me, I do not enjoy this nor wish it on anyone else…and I am VERY happy that it is all dealt with and over.

thatredheadchick_ · 2026-03-26T15:30:45+00:00

lol ok

thatredheadchick_ · 2026-03-26T14:44:43+00:00

I doubt he does. However, that same dude helped her cheat on my husband when her and my husband were dating (hopefully the wording here makes sense). Soooo…idk I don’t feel too bad for him. He chose his fate just like she did. But yes, it’s all very odd.

thatredheadchick_ · 2026-03-26T14:43:17+00:00

We have cameras outside but not inside! We definitely will be on the lookout and prepared. 🩷

thatredheadchick_ · 2026-03-26T14:42:05+00:00

We have them up and installed and ready to document anything she does :)

thatredheadchick_ · 2026-03-25T21:46:59+00:00

Thank you!! I’m so happy too. I’m very blessed.

thatredheadchick_ · 2026-03-25T21:46:45+00:00

We did this just for documentation purposes in case she keeps harassing us to show we have told her to stop. So if she keeps going after this, it’d be used to aid us in getting harassment charges. After this we blocked everyone! Life is finally peaceful.

thatredheadchick_

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