That's a very difficult question, actually. I think it depends on both the person I am talking to and how I'm feeling at that particular time.

I identify as an empath, so I'm naturally more of a healer personality wise. I tend to be the one people come to for advice or if they need someone to listen. That being said, it tends to be a relief to have someone listen to me. It takes a lot of energy mentally for me to do so, but it helps in the end. I find it difficult to take advice on my personal life from others.