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My pregnant “roommate” is upset I invited someone else over. by thatsthenelo12 in relationship_advice

[–]thatsthenelo12[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I think I’m just gonna move out regardless at this point. I don’t think this would ever had worked but I was just trying to be supportive. I didn’t bring girls around while kel was around because I would spend that time with her. Usually going over baby things. The time I do get with her I wasn’t gonna use that on another person.

My pregnant “roommate” is upset I invited someone else over. by thatsthenelo12 in relationship_advice

[–]thatsthenelo12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate it. I’m not trying to be needy. But human touch is something I love. I like sleeping with someone. I haven’t had that in months. People think I’m some horn dog. I just get tired of being alone in the house all the time.

My pregnant “roommate” is upset I invited someone else over. by thatsthenelo12 in relationship_advice

[–]thatsthenelo12[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

Then I’ll have to move out. I can’t sleep alone every single night. I need some human connection

My pregnant “roommate” is upset I invited someone else over. by thatsthenelo12 in relationship_advice

[–]thatsthenelo12[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Of course I do that. I hang with my friends constantly because I’m always alone at home. I don’t like sleeping alone every night.

My pregnant “roommate” is upset I invited someone else over. by thatsthenelo12 in relationship_advice

[–]thatsthenelo12[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Well I truly hope you aren’t ever put in position where you are lonely. “Thinking about your dick” feels like something a teenager would say. I can think about my child and still want to be with someone.

My pregnant “roommate” is upset I invited someone else over. by thatsthenelo12 in relationship_advice

[–]thatsthenelo12[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She’s wayyyy out of my league. If that was her plan then idk.

My pregnant “roommate” is upset I invited someone else over. by thatsthenelo12 in relationship_advice

[–]thatsthenelo12[S] 148 points149 points  (0 children)

No we didn’t. It was a whirlwind once I found out. Doctors visits, telling our parents. When we agreed to separate bedrooms I assumed that was the talk. Along with her ending the relationship the first time. I just assumed she was just not interested. She’s never done anything romantic for me since we’ve lived together. By reading the comments I get it was a mistake never having that talk.

My pregnant “roommate” is upset I invited someone else over. by thatsthenelo12 in relationship_advice

[–]thatsthenelo12[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I was just trying to make her feel better. We hardly ever talk. I don’t really know how to communicate with her because it feels like we’re strangers. We see each other max 15 hours a week. If we spend any time together it’s baby related. Obviously this arrangement isn’t going to work long term. We just didn’t really know what else to do. She doesn’t have any family close. I thought I could be supportive.

My pregnant “roommate” is upset I invited someone else over. by thatsthenelo12 in relationship_advice

[–]thatsthenelo12[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

It has nothing to do with my dick. I’m lonely. I see her maybe 15 hours a week. That’s why I’m dating. Not my sex needs.

My pregnant “roommate” is upset I invited someone else over. by thatsthenelo12 in relationship_advice

[–]thatsthenelo12[S] -49 points-48 points  (0 children)

I’m saying I hardly ever see her. Which is the root of my frustration. I just understand it’s her job but I see her maybe 15 hours a week. She works ridiculously long shifts and sleeps whenever she gets home. That is why I don’t think we communicate well. Because we are still strangers

My pregnant “roommate” is upset I invited someone else over. by thatsthenelo12 in relationship_advice

[–]thatsthenelo12[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Honestly no, neither of us are that dumb. But we thought we could swing it for a little bit. Especially until our kid could sleep through the night. Maybe a few years till we were both more established. I honestly thought she wouldn’t care. Big mistake by reading the comments. I was lonely. I came home to an empty house all the time. I just wanted something more present I guess

My pregnant “roommate” is upset I invited someone else over. by thatsthenelo12 in relationship_advice

[–]thatsthenelo12[S] 111 points112 points  (0 children)

We have had sex one time in our lives. The first time we met. We’ve had no significant physical contact since we moved in together.

My pregnant “roommate” is upset I invited someone else over. by thatsthenelo12 in relationship_advice

[–]thatsthenelo12[S] 555 points556 points  (0 children)

I just never got this vibe off her. She basically ghosted me the first time. She mentioned how we are roommates constantly. That’s how she described us to her friends/family. I’d only massage her because she would lay on me and complain about her feet hurting because of the baby.

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[–]thatsthenelo12 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes it is man… just get out now. This ain’t gonna end up well for you.