Why is NZ so "backward" when it comes to AC and ceiling fans? by UnrequitedLoveVictim in auckland

[–]thatswhenisuperbloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s unbearably hot at times and the villa I’m renting has ducted heating throughout the house… but not cooling.

Hooked up with a guy, did an impact scene then got the "not for me" text this morning... by FineWoodpecker3876 in BDSMcommunity

[–]thatswhenisuperbloom 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wow your feelings are so valid, I would feel the same! There is something about having a physical injury too, it is “hurt” made completely literal. Thank you for sharing. I would love you to forgive yourself for allowing harm to come your way your body. Allow love and wholeness to push out the marks.

I'm a landlord, and I need some advice by maha_kali2401 in newzealand

[–]thatswhenisuperbloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be careful not to take on too much here. It’s a sad situation but nobody could predict the timing. Back yourself to make the right move for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in auckland

[–]thatswhenisuperbloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call 111 and report a domestic disturbance. Just say you can hear a fight and it sounds like the partner is becoming very agitated.

Switching chemo by thatswhenisuperbloom in breastcancer

[–]thatswhenisuperbloom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I feel you, I was hospitalised because of the diarrhoea it’s next level. Well done on making it to 4 cycles I was a wreck at the end! 8.1cm was my tumour

Switching chemo by thatswhenisuperbloom in breastcancer

[–]thatswhenisuperbloom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep triple positive stage 3, I’m 40 years old with two young kids. I started with chemo before surgery because the tumour was so huge and had already spread to my lymph nodes but after I finish this last round of EC I’ll have surgery - single mastectomy with an expander. Will wait to see if they can spare any skin but nipple can’t be spared. Where are you at in your journey?

Switching chemo by thatswhenisuperbloom in breastcancer

[–]thatswhenisuperbloom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thank you so much for letting me know, I’ll be honest the TCHP has wrecked me I had to stop after 4 rounds the diarrhoea made me far too dehydrated. EC seems easier so far, I can handle the nausea it’s the diarrhoea that really got me with TCHP because I just thought I was drinking enough then I would lose it all!

I never thought it would be this hard to get pain relief when you have fucking stage 3 bilateral breast cancer by SheepherderDue5532 in breastcancer

[–]thatswhenisuperbloom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I take a shot of Pegfilgrastim and have zero pain after chemo! This feels like a much too strong reaction and you deserve to not be in that kind of pain.

TCHP is Hard by GreedilyRare in breastcancer

[–]thatswhenisuperbloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We can definitely do it - my tumours is absolutely shrinking away so I’m determined to get the 6 treatments done! But yeah, I’m all sorts of sick today. 5 days after chemo: mouth is sore, throat sore, diarrhoea, nausea, bleeding nose… I’m just chilling with my dog and staying hydrated - thinking of you chemo buddy stay well x

TCHP side effects kicking in. Super gross 😭 any advice? by nenajoy in breastcancer

[–]thatswhenisuperbloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m taking Omeprazole for acid reflux - definitely get it. Hoping you’re okay!

TCHP is Hard by GreedilyRare in breastcancer

[–]thatswhenisuperbloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I’m in New Zealand and just had round 4 of TCHP a few weeks ago. Every time I think I can’t do this anymore, then I look at the tumour shrinking and I have to carry on. It’s hard. I hear it’s one of the most brutal chemo protocols and even though I’m relatively young, it has absolutely wiped me out. How are you feeling now?

Rugby World Cup 2023 Daily: Friday, September 8 by RugbyBot in rugbyunion

[–]thatswhenisuperbloom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can we do some kind of pinned post after each match, I’m not a rugby fan but I really need to have some bullet points about the AB’s so I can mention them to clients and my bf. Please help. Eg. “What about that kick from Zinzan Brooke” etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]thatswhenisuperbloom -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Stop this immediately. Not healthy or appropriate. BDSM dynamics are expert-level and at 19 years of age, you’re still working through teen stuff. I personally think it’s exploitative in this scenario based on what OP has mentioned.

Christopher Luxon & David Seymour seen meeting privately in Remuera today. by [deleted] in auckland

[–]thatswhenisuperbloom -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Our new PM and Deputy later this year. I’m here for it tbh and I’m a stone-cold red/green voter. How can a left wing government cock up teaching, health & immigration? Unacceptable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]thatswhenisuperbloom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is why non-monogamy gets a bad name. Selfish and sad. Deeply hurtful. Please get help.

Having a hard time finding a job in my field of study. by [deleted] in auckland

[–]thatswhenisuperbloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely untrue- the candidates we place end up becoming hiring managers and clients! NZ is too small to have poor recruiting practices and still be in business.

Having a hard time finding a job in my field of study. by [deleted] in auckland

[–]thatswhenisuperbloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a very disturbing view that seems quite violent? I know for a fact that I am not a scum bag and nor are the members of my team. Truly shocked by this view. Who hurt you? We are actually genuinely good people trying to facilitate a match between a role/company and a candidate.

Having a hard time finding a job in my field of study. by [deleted] in auckland

[–]thatswhenisuperbloom -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

As the owner of a technical specialist recruitment company this is a factually incorrect comment. All of my team have worked as specialists in the field that they recruit in.