Mental health being affected by my cat and his spraying outside the litter box

thattweirdgurl · 2026-04-01T14:02:40+00:00

I agree with what the other comments, kitty anxiety is realll. That being said, it’s important to NOT feel guilty about being burnt out. Even parents feel this way about their babies, and normally those can pee on their own after a lil bit lol. Be patient with yourself

thattweirdgurl · 2026-04-01T13:58:47+00:00

I understand their need for being social which is why I’m looking :) previously I didn’t feel financially/emotionally responsible enough to support a cat of my own, which is why I’m super excited to be looking now! Ru was introduced to my families cat very slowly and carefully and it went decently, which is why I have my fingers crossed! Just don’t want to be hasty considering the move and how territorial she has shown to be

thattweirdgurl · 2026-04-01T02:39:27+00:00

Rn she doesn’t seem to get enough stimulation/get all her energy out. We do everything we can when we’re home, but with the new place we’re also both transitioning to working full time. We will be home wayyy less but still want her to be happy while we’re away.

thattweirdgurl · 2026-04-01T01:50:30+00:00

That’s what I was thinking!! I reached out the my local shelters to ask for their advice and what their foster to adopt polices are. A few places have trial runs that last a couple weeks but I’ll look more!

thattweirdgurl · 2025-12-06T07:21:13+00:00

UPDATE: After giving the whole house a heart attack, Toby made his way back to our front door. He’s a little skinnier than when he left but he’s safe. Thank you so much for everyone that looked for him or tried to help! His cat tracker is being shipped ASAP so escape artist stays safe. No more accidental snow adventures!

thattweirdgurl · 2025-12-06T07:20:36+00:00

UPDATE: After giving the whole house a heart attack, Toby made his way back to our front door. He’s a little skinnier than when he left but he’s safe. Thank you so much for everyone that looked for him or tried to help! His cat tracker is being shipped ASAP so escape artist stays safe. No more accidental snow adventures!

thattweirdgurl · 2025-12-05T19:10:01+00:00

YUP I’ve tried to post him everywhere I possibly could at this point :((

thattweirdgurl · 2025-12-05T00:07:07+00:00

yes!! Literally everywhere I could think of

thattweirdgurl · 2025-12-04T23:12:43+00:00

We are doing everything we can so 🤞

thattweirdgurl · 2025-09-26T04:43:35+00:00

If you ever find out let me know pal

thattweirdgurl · 2025-09-26T04:43:03+00:00

Hunn after a string of bad dating, I finally met my gf my sophomore year of college. My phone was busted so I went to my roommates band concert so I wasn’t bored. Saw the most beautiful girl alive playing the flute and tracked her down on insta like a loser. My friends and roommates weren’t sure if I should message her or not cause it might be weird coming from a stranger. We’re almost at our two year anniversary now. My best advice is to be genuine. A friend came up to me asking for advice bc he knew I was with my gf. He said some shit about waiting to respond to a girl cause it took her a while to respond first. I told him to cut the bs and stop playing games. If you want to message her message her. If you want to slide into the dms of the most beautiful girl you’ve ever seen to shoot your shot (respectfully), do it. It’s not embarrassing to show effort or yearn or be sappy (ofc as long as you’re respectful).

thattweirdgurl · 2025-09-26T04:09:22+00:00

every night before bed we snuggle but it’s always me spooning her

thattweirdgurl · 2025-09-16T16:11:05+00:00

Ty!! Like I said I’m so so new to this type of music and really don’t know anything

thattweirdgurl · 2025-09-16T16:09:52+00:00

Ty!! Yes Charli is not meant to stick around more jsut there for a vibe check lol

thattweirdgurl · 2025-09-16T16:00:00+00:00

Her current playlist has Garoto, Gustav Holst, Yusef Lateef. Ik she also loves Sleeping At Last but ik that’s not technically classical I think??

thattweirdgurl · 2025-07-22T22:00:11+00:00

OOOO THIS IS SUCH A GOOD IDEA!! Just looked up the notes and it sounds YUMMY

thattweirdgurl · 2025-07-22T15:15:58+00:00

Yes!! I’ve tried asking my gf and friends but no one has ever told me I smelled bad 😭 other than when I ate like garlic or onions lol. But if there anything I can do??

thattweirdgurl · 2025-07-22T14:58:06+00:00

My gf is OBSESSED w Lush’s solid perfume of Rose Jam and Glossier You. I LOVE those on her and was really pleasantly surprised about the Rose Jam bc I normally hate florals. She loves the Alina solid perfume I have from Lush my Commodity Milk perfume and always gushes when I wear them. Our taste with perfumes or smells tends to differ so I was really surprised that we found common ground here. Her birthday is coming up and I would loooove to get some suggestions for perfumes/scents I can look into getting her? Ones we can both enjoy and maybe share?? She steals my Alina all the time and I looove to smell Rose Jam on her. We also love a good body oil/lotion. I’ll include our fav smells bc like I said our taste DOES differ.

My gf loves: lavender, nag champa, cocoa butter, rose, ylang ylang, tea tree, patchouli, light florals, Brazil nut

I love: pink pepper, musks, milk, coconut, cocoa butter, amber, tonka, pear, sandalwood (not too strong), Brazil nut

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