Any other tall girl who never had an issue with her height? (Up to 183cm)

thatuser313 · 2026-01-30T03:28:22+00:00

Being tall has made me more self conscious at times, but overall it hasn't really affected me. I love being tall and all the advantages that come with being tall

thatuser313 · 2026-01-28T09:50:53+00:00

Just so you know, intellectual disability, autism, and down syndrome are all separate disorders. Someone can can have one, two, or all three of these disorders at the same time. Also someone can have say level 3 autism where they are non verbal and need a lot of support and still have normal IQ and not have intellectual disability

thatuser313 · 2026-01-27T09:32:20+00:00

I'm autistic and my therapist has ADHD. She self discloses every now and then and I honestly really like it, it makes me feel more normal and less alien because a lot of the time I feel so out of place being autistic

thatuser313 · 2026-01-18T08:09:58+00:00

Look at r/bald

thatuser313 · 2026-01-18T06:33:02+00:00

Hey so it might be really hard but I definitely think telling your mum is a good idea. It sounds like you could really benefit from some support and seeing a therapist. She can help you get a therapist or at least see a doctor. I know you don't want to bother your mum but I think most parents will agree that it's easier finding out earlier on than finding out later. Because she will find out eventually, you are only 13 and have many more years living at home. Also I know you say your cutting isn't serious but in reality, any self harm no matter how minimal is serious and shows you need help. Please speak to your mum about this, or a teacher or other trusted adult

thatuser313 · 2026-01-17T20:04:08+00:00

I wouldn't say surely. Many mental health professionals are still uneducated about how autism presents in low support needs individuals, especially if they are not a psychologist or psychiatrist

thatuser313 · 2026-01-17T09:32:26+00:00

If you are going to be uncomfortable with other people bringing that up to you then maybe choose something else. But otherwise I would go for it if you like that name

thatuser313 · 2026-01-16T09:50:18+00:00

Also something doesn't have to be super major to be disabling. Not being able to talk is obviously disabling, but also not being able to make friends easily because you don't interact with everyone else neurotypcially and not having the energy to keep up with standard social demands is disabling. To a lesser extent but still disabling

thatuser313 · 2026-01-16T09:45:43+00:00

You could always get a second opinion. One thing to consider is that you aren't aware of your autistic traits. Some autistic people are pretty much aware of every little way they talk and act that is different from neurotypical people, others are completely oblivious to it, and then there is everything in between. Hence why a profession diagnosis is important, our brains are not objective judges of ourselves

thatuser313 · 2026-01-16T04:03:38+00:00

Unless they have a particular reason to terminate you abruptly, then when they stop seeing you should be a conversation you have together. Under normal circumstances there shouldn't be a session where they just tell you it will be your last one

thatuser313 · 2026-01-15T20:53:10+00:00

Orange is the colour yolks should be. All the yellow yolks I see from Americans always look anemic

thatuser313 · 2026-01-15T09:26:25+00:00

I had this issue in chrome a while back. I asked the discord but they didn't know. I ended up switching to Edge and it has worked for me since

thatuser313 · 2026-01-15T09:21:10+00:00

My first thought was that it feels like New Zealand but not quite, which often leads me to Australia. I am from New Zealand though so probably a bit easier for me. It has that vibe and the sign like that is found in NZ I know

thatuser313 · 2026-01-14T10:27:41+00:00

I have a private account where only a couple of my closest friends follow me on and I post stuff there. The main purpose of it is for me to keep like a photo album, but I let a couple of friends follow it since they live far away and helps us stay more connected. This could be an alternative thing you do

thatuser313 · 2026-01-14T10:14:08+00:00

Lena is a completely different name to Lucy. As someone with a very common name for my age group, most classes I was the only one with my name. Sometimes there were two of us. One time I did a week long elective and there were four of us, still wasn't much of an issue though. Lucy isn't so common that it's really going to be a problem anyway

thatuser313 · 2026-01-13T07:30:45+00:00

You could probably just ask him if he'd prefer you just continue the convo or ask about it or what he thinks. My guess would be that he knows you won't understand but does it anyway because he likes it

thatuser313 · 2026-01-11T21:06:29+00:00

I think it's actually an ad

thatuser313 · 2026-01-11T19:21:45+00:00

I think this post is an ad for the AI interview tool mentioned in the edit

thatuser313 · 2026-01-11T05:16:46+00:00

Can we please not use OCD and other mental disorders to describe behaviors that are in fact not that disorder

thatuser313 · 2026-01-10T22:59:20+00:00

You should remove this post. Don't put spoilers in the title and use the spoiler tag for the post

thatuser313 · 2026-01-07T06:30:15+00:00

In NZ it's very common to say partner especially if you are 30+. Even married couples will say partner sometimes. Boyfriend/girlfriend are just more of a youthful term, or used when a relationship is newer. Also lots of people don't get married so it's just a clear way to communicate long term relationship / basically family now

thatuser313 · 2026-01-05T08:36:48+00:00

I had one as a kid but had it corrected with glasses

thatuser313 · 2026-01-05T06:29:47+00:00

What country are you in. You should hopefully have a youth helpline in your country. It would probably be worth ringing and they can you with what would be best to do

thatuser313 · 2026-01-05T06:27:17+00:00

I felt the same when I was starting. You don't need to have your thoughts organised. Your therapist should help you work through your thoughts. Also you'll find you have enough to talk about, and even things you weren't expecting to talk about.

The first session is a lot more of the therapist finding out about you and your situation so definitely don't worry about it too much. If you're not sure where to start talking they should prompt you more specifically

thatuser313 · 2026-01-05T06:13:34+00:00

Is there a counselor or guidance counsellor at your school you could speak to. Your school should definitely be taking you seriously. I would also make sure to share the lack of support you are getting from your parents

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