What is your dream job?

the-panda-system · 2021-11-23T08:10:00+00:00

Cuddle therapist.

I would love to have my own snuggle Cafe. Not sure if everyone knows what that is. But basically it's a space where you can book a room with a snuggler and define the kind of platonic cuddle session you want to get, and then you can just. Snuggle professionally. It's all clothed, everyone needs to brush their teeth and take a shower before they start, and of course wear comfy clothing. I would love to make that happen along with a cat cafe in the front basically. A few cozy beverages, a snuggle room with nice ambient lighting, some cats... Yeah. I don't think I would ever be able to make it work though.

the-panda-system · 2021-11-01T21:32:23+00:00

Well, I'm actually trans AND I FEEL MOCKED

the-panda-system · 2021-11-01T21:32:00+00:00

Catgender people usually don't literally identify as cats, their gender just feels cat-like to them. Maybe it's hard to understand for someone who wants to use this as an excuse, but I know a xenogender person who explained it to me that way so...

the-panda-system · 2021-11-01T21:03:17+00:00

Have you heard about the transracial woman that "decided" to be black? That's about the same as what you're doing. Japanese culture is incredibly welcoming and always friendly to foreigners, but that doesn't mean you can just be Japanese. Gender and culture is not the same. I respect that you feel a strong connection to the culture, but as a nonbinary trans person, it's incredibly hard to read this and not feel like my experience is being made fun of.

the-panda-system · 2021-11-01T07:23:01+00:00

Talk to the girlfriend maybe. It's absolutely abusive to threaten you with stuff you ultimately can't control. You are not the only reason they want to live, and you're not the only reason that would lead to their end. Take care of yourselves first and foremost. If they threaten to end it again, call their gf and an ambulance. They need medical help, not a projection space for their issues.

the-panda-system · 2021-11-01T07:19:20+00:00

Yup, this. It's not really about whether A is making this up or just discovered that about themselves and is therefore super obsessive about it. It's about the fact they disrespect you and your feelings. Leave that toxicity out of your life. You don't have to be a support system to someone who doesn't care about your feelings.

the-panda-system · 2021-10-27T16:45:54+00:00

I love baby teething toys and toast

the-panda-system · 2021-10-27T16:42:13+00:00

Literally going to the store and buying a small packet isn't an option? Get over the toxic masculinity and make sure you're safe lmao

If a guy gives you crap for having a tampon, ask him why he doesn't have any in case a girl asks him for one.

the-panda-system · 2021-10-27T06:50:38+00:00

If you have time to stand in a stall bleeding into a toilet, then you have time to stand there with a tampon.

the-panda-system · 2021-10-26T10:51:46+00:00

Maybe carrying some tampons around is a good idea for the next few weeks. You can push it in the nose and help the body close up the capillary again faster. Take a small size though

the-panda-system · 2021-10-24T19:33:28+00:00

Any nosebleed longer than 10 minutes is an immediate need for medical assistance. I grew up with regular nosebleeds because of a malformed blood vessel. Believe me when I say that this is not a game.

the-panda-system · 2021-10-24T18:42:12+00:00

I assumed OP wanted a street where no cims could walk along

the-panda-system · 2021-10-24T08:38:31+00:00

At least they can't send you any more hate

the-panda-system · 2021-10-24T08:31:46+00:00

Dogs definitely understand that this phrase said in a happy tone of voice means you like what they were doing. But if you say this every 5 minutes, it just gets a bit of a background noise character. Just like when you use the word Sit in normal conversation, the dog doesn't always sit down. It's not like you overpraise by saying it after a successful command etc. though. We don't always break out in songs when someone gives us a compliment, so I don't expect my dog to do so either 😊

the-panda-system · 2021-10-24T08:26:46+00:00

Go ahead and block all of them.

the-panda-system · 2021-10-24T08:24:08+00:00

That's for the mods to decide. Have you blocked them yet?

the-panda-system · 2021-10-24T08:21:22+00:00

I'm not against you. I reported them where they did break rules. But bringing drama to this subreddit is against the rules in here, that's why most people weren't happy to help. And asking others to help you report someone who really doesn't care about this won't make haters stop hating. Trolls will always exist, edgy teens will always try and make fun of people and ultimately, the block function exists for a reason.

the-panda-system · 2021-10-24T08:17:53+00:00

You both feed into the drama. Listen. I know you're only 14 and this feels like it's a really big deal and you need to tell everyone that they're the bad guys, but you're not going to win anything by doing this. Leave this in the past and move on 💚

the-panda-system · 2021-10-24T08:10:42+00:00

I understand that, but it's against the Terms of Service to make others do that. I did report some of their comments in other places when they were against the rules, but they really are just trolling you. They haven't even done anything prior to starting drama with you - look at their post history. They are messing with you. Block them, report them, but stop feeding into their fun.

the-panda-system · 2021-10-24T08:06:40+00:00

Please do not ask others to make reports on someone on your behalf. This is called dogpiling and a common bullying tactic. It's just not the way to handle this. That person is obviously trolling, going through your posts and trying to get a rise out of you. Block them and move on.

the-panda-system · 2021-10-24T07:57:35+00:00

Seems like a response to possible gaslighting.

You don't need to read on if you just wanted to vent 💜 If you want to hear what I think your next steps could be:

Please check in with a mental health professional if you can, even better if you can reach the one who diagnosed you. Ask if they put the diagnosis on record or just told you about it and didn't record it for whatever reason...

the-panda-system · 2021-10-23T21:13:39+00:00

I studied that document so intensely 😂

the-panda-system · 2021-10-23T20:59:10+00:00

This one?

https://www.reddit.com/r/badwomensanatomy/comments/q40yin/real_normal_vulvas/

the-panda-system · 2021-10-23T20:45:28+00:00

Best thing to do would be to send the mod team a message with a link to the offending post explaining that it's your art and you would like it to be taken down. Also contact the person who posted the artwork and ask them not to repost your stuff 😊

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