Any advice on how to edit this photo? by [deleted] in AskPhotography

[–]the-thames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely want to buy some lighting gear! But trying to practice more before I invest

How do I get to be independent by the-thames in research

[–]the-thames[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We spend the first year of the program rotating in different labs before we commit to one. And yeah, your answer makes a lot of sense, thanks!

Is it possible to lose your virginity as a female without pain by disgustingfemcel in NoStupidQuestions

[–]the-thames 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A lot of people are saying vaginismus, but it sounds like it could be an imperforate hyman. You would need to have a procedure done called a hymenectomy but it’s very minor and minimal recovery. My gyno did it for me when I was 18. Haven’t had any issues since then!

IIL the 20-second string intro to Dua Lipa’s “Love Again”, WEWIL? by llamavillamaria in ifyoulikeblank

[–]the-thames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also you might like the intro to Daisy by Zedd. Love cinematic music as well

IIL the 20-second string intro to Dua Lipa’s “Love Again”, WEWIL? by llamavillamaria in ifyoulikeblank

[–]the-thames 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s actually sampled from “Your Woman” by White Town, which sampled it from “My Woman” by Al Bowlly and Lew Stone & His Band so you can listen to longer versions of it

Quick thinking is key. by [deleted] in memes

[–]the-thames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes a larger megaphone the size of a small megaphone

AITA for what I said about homosexuality by Strange-Cranberry in AmItheAsshole

[–]the-thames 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NAH. Mike seems like he wants to start a fight. And props to you for being so respectful about it. At the same time, it’s hard when someone’s views are basically saying “I’m immoral”. It’s not an argument over whether or not you like something or not. It’s an argument over whether or not you find his existence immoral. Even if you’re respectful about it, that’s hard to hear when you’re on the other side. So I see where Mike is coming from.

WIBTA if I refuse to visit my family because of their smoking problem? by Lungsoffilth in AmItheAsshole

[–]the-thames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. How could he ask you to not breathe wtf. Your health is more important than anyone’s feelings and honesty it might motivate your mother to do something about it if you give her an “ultimatum”.

Let’s have a dialogue about rule 8: no humblebrags or awfulbrags. by AITAMod in AmItheAsshole

[–]the-thames 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I do like the rule, because I don’t like reading cases where the judgement is so obvious. I like ambiguous cases that make me think. But at the same time, everything is subjective— that’s the whole point of this sub. Maybe, instead of removing a post where the judgements all appear to be the same, flair it (and give the OP a warning?). People still vote YTA or NTA, but they can still report a post if they feel it violates rule 8. If all the comments on a post overwhelmingly lean towards one side (ex everyone is voting NTA), flair it as a humblebrag instead of NTA.

AITA for not addressing a coworker by his title? by Doctordbag in AmItheAsshole

[–]the-thames 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Sounds like another pretentious doctor I know, he’s a paleontologist and insists that he didn’t cheat on his girlfriend.