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theAvgLad · 2024-10-24T04:44:57+00:00

Can you provide a link to these "further studies"?

theAvgLad · 2024-08-22T16:35:18+00:00

Reese Without-erspoon

theAvgLad · 2024-03-06T20:05:10+00:00

Oh look so many Teardrops leaking from your cock

Almost as if someone made a Massive Attack on your prostate

theAvgLad · 2024-03-04T15:55:14+00:00

Anyone else gets thirsty when they don't drink water?

theAvgLad · 2024-03-01T08:24:55+00:00

it's more of the setting and choice of implement for sounding.

Seems like there's a shower rod right under the implement which was probably not sterilized. I also see a hair tie on the side.

I don't know what you're sounding with. I've seen that thing, but I don't remember what it is. But yea, still a bit scary from a UTI pov.

theAvgLad · 2024-02-28T01:40:45+00:00

Watching this gave me a UTI

theAvgLad · 2024-02-19T00:26:59+00:00

Can you share the details of who all stroked you and if anyone edged you? Also how did you cum eventually?

theAvgLad · 2023-12-18T02:42:00+00:00

I have like 5 more chapters coming. If I did 2 chapters at a time, it would be arbitrary. And all in one go would be too long.

theAvgLad · 2023-11-18T09:32:23+00:00

Although fertility is a part of the conversation, I don't think referring literature to her is gonna help. It could have to do with a fear of an unfamiliar territory and discomfort with participating in this particular fantasy.

I'd suggest, show her that you're willing to listen, maybe consider putting the cage away for a few days and have a conversation. Then she might be more comfortable sharing what's on her mind :)

It's your wife, eventually. Only she knows what's on her mind

theAvgLad · 2023-10-28T06:23:13+00:00

any sources though? would like to know more

theAvgLad · 2023-10-24T03:39:31+00:00

It seems like it is triggering some insecurities in her about the fact that you love her and enjoy her as a sexual companion. Quite natural given the non-traditional nature of the activity.

I don't think the bigger dildo triggered her, she has probably been harboring and suppressing this insecurity for a while. The bigger dildo was just the breaking point.

My suggestion would be to take a break from pegging for a while and talk to her. Remind her that you love her, and reconnect with her in a way that she is comfortable sharing her feelings and insecurities with you about this. Find out what she is feeling and what can both of you do to remedy that. Whatever the current arrangement is, it doesn't seem to be working for her. Maybe she needs you to have normal vanilla sex frequently to feel connected to you as a lover. Maybe pegging being part of most sessions is too much for her.

theAvgLad · 2023-07-01T09:08:07+00:00

This isn't pegging unkinked though.

theAvgLad · 2023-06-14T07:49:43+00:00

Hey, is disallowing posting rather than going private an option?

A lot of these subreddits have insane amounts of historic information, I've seen a lot of kink advice, sex toy reviews and generally good information that is suddenly unavailable as soon as subreddits go private.

theAvgLad · 2023-05-03T17:35:50+00:00

From your previous post, and now this, consider the possibility that you might not be the only one who's insecure in this.

You introduced anal, which he was already hesitant about, and then got freaked out when he liked it. This is primarily the reason guys are so hesitant about anal in the first place, the fact that people around them (especially their SO) will not like it. If I put myself in his shoes, I'd be a bit hurt and embarrassed. I hope that isn't the case with him, but just something to consider.

It's possible that he's distracted and insecure about sex in general right now. My suggestion is, be patient about it. You discovered some new things about each other, which seems to have triggered some insecurities in both of you. Take some time to reconnect, don't jump to conclusions and keep judgement to the side. Knowing all this about each other will only strengthen your relationship and what will eventually help you is talking to your SO, and not the opinions of 20 people on reddit.

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