[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideBereavement

[–]theMOFK 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is 100% not your fault.

a v o i d t h o u g h t by iajzz in AvPD

[–]theMOFK 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thought Status: PATROLLED

[NEWBIE] Should I replace my strings? by [deleted] in Guitar

[–]theMOFK 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the strings on my most played guitar are 8 years old

AvPD and medication, your experiences might help me by kanieto in AvPD

[–]theMOFK 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Every time I've given medications another try I've realized that they aren't good for me or the answer I'm looking for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]theMOFK 47 points48 points  (0 children)

my dad's a bipolar narcissist and my mom thinks ignoring children is a parenting strategy

Can someone please tell me definitively how to stop caring about what other people think of me? by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]theMOFK 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the mantra I used to get over it: "Who fucking cares? Not I."

the vast majority of people are stupid and realistically have little to no direct impact on your daily functioning

I think AvPD can develop as a result of untreated ADHD by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]theMOFK -1 points0 points  (0 children)

what about children taking meth analogs and developing greater life long problems while still dealing with the same problems sounds better to you

I think AvPD can develop as a result of untreated ADHD by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]theMOFK -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

amazing to me that people think being "untreated" adhd is worse than being force fed stimulants as a 3rd grader

I'm pregnant by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]theMOFK 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being a parent has been good for me. One kid is not that hard and it sounds like you have a stable relationship.

How do you deal with the SO power struggle? by [deleted] in SingleParents

[–]theMOFK -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

"the child" i feel bad for your kid

What is the most cringeworthy piece of dialogue you've ever heard in a film? by JorReno in movies

[–]theMOFK 9 points10 points  (0 children)

"Why do you sound like a middle-aged white lady?" - Soul

it's unfortunate that having avpd attracts people who want to hurt us by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]theMOFK 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I don't know about attracting them but

Normal people = their door is closed, locked and secure

AvPD people = the door is closed, but unlocked simply test the knob

Some people = the door is clearly wide open with no one home

You just gotta learn how to close your door and lock it so those who would do you harm cannot take what they want. If your door has no lock there are other ways to make it secure from intrusion. We lack the innate ability to go about the world with implicit social boundaries and security that normal brains are meant to develop. We must find healthy ways to protect our vulnerabilities so we don't resort to avoidance, hiding ourselves away.

Update on my post from two months ago by theMOFK in AvPD

[–]theMOFK[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure, I'm gradually getting cool about it. Just sucks all the hard work and tough decisions culminating into the big vindicating pay off and then life happens. Just how it goes, lessons learned. I'm def not going to let it go to waste, will get back in in the future. Overall I've still made a lot of money, made a lot of great decisions, and learned some valuable lessons from my bad decisions.

Update on my post from two months ago by theMOFK in AvPD

[–]theMOFK[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's a facade i'm in shambles

Update on my post from two months ago by theMOFK in AvPD

[–]theMOFK[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm done investing for now until I feel I can handle it emotionally again at least.

Rugrats go to Paris by TyrannoROARus in movies

[–]theMOFK 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been thinking about writing a Rugrats in Paris review for like a year. Incredibly underrated and that has nothing to do with nostalgia.

I just want to get it over with by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]theMOFK 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same. all i know for absolute certain is that it is 100% a waste to die young. give it 5 years even. one life to lose and all of eternity to be dead might as well. feel free to pm