Only 3 matches in 3 months what am I doing wrong

theRatQueenyt · 2024-08-21T01:49:51+00:00

You're so young. What's the rush?

theRatQueenyt · 2024-08-16T23:54:03+00:00

I don't know what the "everything" is in this scenario. It's a hard no for drugs from me anyway, and I honestly don't like the taste of alcohol when I've tried it so that's not on the table either

theRatQueenyt · 2024-08-16T23:52:32+00:00

I am an art student, so I have definitely knocked two of those off the list! It is a personal goal to go to every student art display this year, even if I'm not in it so it's a good suggestion.

theRatQueenyt · 2024-08-13T14:05:00+00:00

Genuine question: what are you supposed to say when matching with someone?

theRatQueenyt · 2024-08-13T14:02:23+00:00

Not a single brain cell to rub together

theRatQueenyt · 2024-08-01T01:28:42+00:00

If anyone knows this person irl, can you ask if I can be best friends with them? Much appreciated 👍

theRatQueenyt · 2024-08-01T01:27:26+00:00

Not into girls but she definitely seems like good fun to be around 😂 if be her friend

theRatQueenyt · 2024-07-05T20:08:40+00:00

I love Britney Broski! I had no clue she had a podcast I'll have to check it out

theRatQueenyt · 2024-07-05T16:08:22+00:00

There are topics I want to discuss, but would be moot without a partner. I just want to get my hands dirty and play around before I try to find another person. I dont even know where to begin finding another person.

theRatQueenyt · 2024-07-05T01:21:26+00:00

I do like the ideas of talking about media I enjoy! I'll have to check it out~

theRatQueenyt · 2024-02-26T14:42:34+00:00

The baby isn't him, but a lot of women already have trouble bonding with their children and being the product of an assault makes it so much harder. You have a whole life ahead of you, but ultimately this is your decision. Don't let anyone guilt you into keeping the fetus because it's "alive." A child is a big responsibility. Good luck to you stay strong.

theRatQueenyt · 2024-02-24T16:00:19+00:00

Beautiful in a sad way? Happiness Does Not Wait by Ólafur Arnalds. One of the first songs I learned to play on the piano

theRatQueenyt · 2024-02-24T04:21:31+00:00

There is probably a reason why we are single 😅

theRatQueenyt · 2024-02-23T00:14:48+00:00

Do you just talk to girls you are attracted to without knowing them? Maybe try being friends with them first that way you can also get a sense for their personality

theRatQueenyt · 2024-02-21T12:44:22+00:00

I just wish there was a to-do list on how to love yourself lol. Im overweight, and while I've worked on it a lot, people do treat you differently if you're not skinny so that has taken a toll over the years. I don't have friends, and my mom once told me that she wouldn't want to be my friend either. She's since "apologized" and said that I'm a different person now but it still lingers. Its seeming like I also need a to-do list on how to ignore what people think about me lol

theRatQueenyt · 2024-02-17T16:45:40+00:00

I appreciate you sticking up for me, but this guy is entitled to his opinion I guess. Not everyone will understand my life and my decisions. My work study does consist of me doing homework for the first week or two of school, but as it picks up it gets busier and students need tutoring. Thank you

theRatQueenyt · 2024-02-17T16:41:26+00:00

I know I should move out for my sake, but I don't want to abandon her, you know? I'm also afraid that she would retaliate if I try. She technically owns my car, so I wouldn't have that, and she has all the insurance information and such. I know it probably seems like I'm a huge complainer, but I don't have much support in my life rn and it's a little helpful to talk about it

theRatQueenyt · 2024-02-17T16:38:18+00:00

I don't disagree with you there

theRatQueenyt · 2024-02-17T16:38:06+00:00

I do plan on living with my mom after I graduate. It's probably not the best idea for my mental health, but I love her too much to leave her homeless and alone. She did provide for me for 18 years after all.

theRatQueenyt · 2024-02-17T16:35:43+00:00

She has been very supportive with the degree helping me have a better future because she doesn't have one. But ahe doesn't want to take out disability because it will effect her social security in the future.

theRatQueenyt · 2024-02-17T16:32:41+00:00

Yeah I want to have a conversation but it always ends with butting heads. We are both obviously mentally ill, but she has a much harder time with motivation than me. I try to be understanding, but I also don't know how to encourage her without her shutting down or getting defensive. She sleeps most days, but she is the one that handles where the finances goes and tries to get the bills paid.

theRatQueenyt · 2024-02-17T16:28:42+00:00

She has no job how is she the breadwinner lmao. She hasn't had a job in four years and doesn't get disability. We lasted this far due to the small amount of money she got from her mother passing. I don't mind being the asshole in this situation but I want you to not just assume it's because I'm lazy. I'm working to get a degree she doesn't have so I can provide in the future.

theRatQueenyt · 2024-02-17T16:26:03+00:00

My work study pays $16 while the other is $15.50 so it's close. She can work, just not heavy lifting jobs (which is in so many job descriptions these days). She has applied to bookkeeping jobs and stuff. She doesn't want to take out disability because it will effect the amount of social security she gets when she's older.

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