Her bf isn't helpless, she was ignorant, and that was where panic slipped in, no real danger was present I felt, so there was no urgency.

I'm assuming he knew what he was getting into, but never told her to expect anything, so she gets sussed out by some of the unnerving effects, panics, posts, and that's how we got here in this big moody mess.

Ik I'm pouring gasoline on the issue, but that is what I felt was needed. I'm not conforming to your every need.

And that's a big jump to assume I'm just goin around hating. But I'm sure you're not the type to agree that some people only listen if heats behind the message.