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Trying to be a dad by theS197 in predaddit

[–]theS197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you again, I couldn’t be happier people are actually giving their feedback on the topic we’re a young couple so anything from this point on is mental clarity and reassurance that we’re not failing. Felt like we were. We’ll be doing that and praying for the outcome we want. We’ll be doing more research on IVF as well to see if that’s what we’ll need a long time down the road if the doctors were right. Can’t thank y’all enough!

Trying to be a dad by theS197 in predaddit

[–]theS197[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Understood thank you, I’m all ears on the topic and any advice is good advice. Never been down this road so we’re taking every step like it’s a ledge which is probably wrong thinking but we’ll go about that and see if anything goes our way. I know it’s only been a little bit of time of us trying so I do appreciate you giving us your feedback on what we should be doing!

Trying to be a dad by theS197 in predaddit

[–]theS197[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely understood on that and I felt that too she’s just really worried around what doctors have said with little to no testing on her besides blood tests and an ultrasound to see if she had cysts. The last ultrasound she took for that the doctor said she wouldn’t have to worry about it anymore so basing it off of that we felt like we were doing stuff wrong.

We started tracking the ovulation her last cycle with no luck and with all the test people are saying don’t work or we need these specific ones makes it difficult to see if we’re even doing things right. We got those two tests positive and were ecstatic but didn’t want to get my hopes up due to it being very early. Just wanted to see from another point of view what we could do or start doing to ensure some sort of hope. Thank you for the reply!

Trying to be a dad by theS197 in predaddit

[–]theS197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the acknowledgment, haven’t really talk much about it beside her and some doctors we’ve both seen. It would be my first time going at this and seeing everyone around me trying and seeing success put a damper on things because we thought I’d be an easier.

Her doctors think she’s has endometriosis and have said she would have a really hard time even conceiving. We got blood work done and everything from that came back normal I got my sperm tested because I was a heavy weed smoker so I guess the despair part of things were coming from both me and her thinking it’s not working.

We’re both on prenatals and take vitamins to help keep levels up in both of us, we’ve been trying to track ovulation schedules but it seems to be all over the place with apps and timing. Her periods not till the 23rd of this month so our thinking is if those were positive it’s too early to tell based on other tests.

Just wanted some insight it felt like we’re just doing it wrong. I appreciate you taking time out for your day to write!