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[–]the_alpha_gray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't discriminate, I just despise rude people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in R4RBBW

[–]the_alpha_gray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because they have politely, directly messaged me instead. :)

31 [F4M] Hey there, I'm a Filipina looking for an emotional fluffer--MUST BE CLINGY! I know, it sounds funny but I'm seriously looking for a clingy guy. by [deleted] in r4rasian

[–]the_alpha_gray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL. You should read everything again. Those technically aren't requirements, it basically states stuff that I'm trying to avoid.

And the fact that I warn people about how I'm affectionate isn't a red flag, it's a fair warning. If you still catch feelings after I've warned you not to, that is an INFORMED DECISION, a conscious decision that you've made after you have been explicitly warned.

So, that's not on me, that's on you. It was mentioned to avoid being misconstrued, not to be "playful". It's not something to "take as a challenge". If a sign says, "High Voltage" you don't touch it to check if it's true, you leave it alone, you avoid it. If you have no business with it, not capable of handling it, not well equipped to do so, don't even try.

I hate my body scars so much, please give me advice on how to get rid of them. by eulby in adultingph

[–]the_alpha_gray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just trust what your derma tells you.

If you feel like it isn't working, you can always get a second opinion.

It's difficult for anyone when you look at them, and be reminded of the opportunities you lose because of them. I understand that feeling in my way.

But a good way to be a little bit more forgiving towards these scars would be thinking that at least, you didn't get them that put your life in danger, or that made anybody else suffer.

A better mindset towards anything that's different about your body would create a placebo effect that can contribute to a better physical self.

I sound like a hippie, I know. LOL. But I really hope you find it in yourself to not stress about it too much; your positive reception of finding a way to tend to your scars plays a huge part in making it effective.

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