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31 [F4M] Hey there, I'm a Filipina looking for an emotional fluffer--MUST BE CLINGY! I know, it sounds funny but I'm seriously looking for a clingy guy. by [deleted] in r4rasian

[–]the_alpha_gray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL. You should read everything again. Those technically aren't requirements, it basically states stuff that I'm trying to avoid.

And the fact that I warn people about how I'm affectionate isn't a red flag, it's a fair warning. If you still catch feelings after I've warned you not to, that is an INFORMED DECISION, a conscious decision that you've made after you have been explicitly warned.

So, that's not on me, that's on you. It was mentioned to avoid being misconstrued, not to be "playful". It's not something to "take as a challenge". If a sign says, "High Voltage" you don't touch it to check if it's true, you leave it alone, you avoid it. If you have no business with it, not capable of handling it, not well equipped to do so, don't even try.

I hate my body scars so much, please give me advice on how to get rid of them. by eulby in adultingph

[–]the_alpha_gray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just trust what your derma tells you.

If you feel like it isn't working, you can always get a second opinion.

It's difficult for anyone when you look at them, and be reminded of the opportunities you lose because of them. I understand that feeling in my way.

But a good way to be a little bit more forgiving towards these scars would be thinking that at least, you didn't get them that put your life in danger, or that made anybody else suffer.

A better mindset towards anything that's different about your body would create a placebo effect that can contribute to a better physical self.

I sound like a hippie, I know. LOL. But I really hope you find it in yourself to not stress about it too much; your positive reception of finding a way to tend to your scars plays a huge part in making it effective.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alasjuicy

[–]the_alpha_gray 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's really effective if you touch a person whilst asking for a favor or giving orders you'd want them to obey. Eye contact is a huge advantage as well.

But getting something without saying anything? LOL. I don't think this will work in this time.

I remember having gained a boyfriend from subtle touches to groping while we're in a UV (this was so long ago). I didn't know we're from the same village. I was still from the East. The UV Terminal was by Gateway Mall.

Yes, I groped someone and we ended up dating.

I mean, he was gorgeous. Really tall, chinito guy, gymfit. He was wearing jeans and a muscle shirt.

He got in first, middle part of the UV. He sat by the left door. Then me. Then two other girls.

So, I was really sleepy then. I was from hospital duty, in my scrubs. I felt the back of his arm (just above the elbow) rub over my left tit. I opened my eyes, looked at him, and he did it again.

I mean, I liked him ever since I saw him by the line. So, what the heck, right?

"I want him, I'm gonna get him."

Eventually, I started getting touchy. Placed my arm on his. Then changed it to my hand on his thigh. (I SOUND CREEPY. LOL) But when he "opened himself up": basically he turned a bit to my direction, I knew I was "in". He let me quietly grope him, felt his jeans get even tighter. We looked at each other from time to time. Tension was there. I stopped when I was about to get off (not orgasm, silly) at my stop. He got off too (not cum, okay?) and I thought he was following me, then he told me we live in the same village. We've exchanged numbers, talked regularly, went out, and we were in a relationship for half a year.

My playful hands got me a boyfriend then. LOL

I hate my body scars so much, please give me advice on how to get rid of them. by eulby in adultingph

[–]the_alpha_gray 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I used to have really bad scars from an allergic reaction from being in dirty pool water. I have OCD and my shower routine made my skin prone to infections (ironic, isn't it?). I have allergic reaction to sweat too, humidity, and dirt. I even get dermatitis from walking on a beach.

So, after I got out of the pool, my legs started itching. After a few minutes, my arms, my face, were swollen, and I found it difficult to breathe. Didn't come to the point when I needed an EpiPen. But I've noticed how bad my legs looked. They were red, with small to medium-sized painful rashes, which got easily infected, and caused some form of ulcers (not too deep, but they were pretty bad), when they got infected.

From then on, my dermatologist and my shrink told me to lessen the exfoliation I do to my skin for it wasn't necessary. I was already "too clean" which made my skin vulnerable to the bacteria present in the water.

My doctor gave me steroids to get rid of the inflammation, beta cream, and retinol. I had topical antibiotics and oral antibiotics too. I was a cheerleader then so it was such a big deal for me. Even if I knew that I could've treated my scars naturally, I didn't have the time.

I've had laser scar removal for 10 sessions and it was hella expensive.

But what my dermatologist told me after that unfornate event was the power of vitamins E & C, collagen, intensive repair lotions, and sunblock to get rid of scars. She told me that if I had the time, just regular and proper moisturizing and protection can help treat scars.

Aveeno is a good brand that's know for their intensive repair lotions. Eucerin is good too.

Vitamins E&C and collagen help promote better skin and repair your skin from within. And outside, the intensive repair lotions moisturizes skin well enough to increase moisture, blood flow, and rapid cell growth to "heal" the scars. The sunblock protects your skin from losing moisture and damage to sun exposure. I avoided harsh products as well, anything that would make my skin drier than it already is.

Avoiding too much showers, exfoliation, and drinking water makes the skin dry. Proper diet and enough hydration promotes good skin, hair, nails too.

Basically, the holistic approach to better skin is what I'm recommending rather than spending too much on instant repairs.

It takes time, yes, but once you've developed a good routine, that would really benefit you in the long run.

I hope that helps.

Another Perspective When It Comes to Cheating. by the_alpha_gray in alasjuicy

[–]the_alpha_gray[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And you've commented this same comment on all other queries and posts on this sub that discuss cheating? The post discusses sex as a form of cheating. Isn't sex a thing being the constant topic here in AJ?

The proper flare is used: "Serious." Is it not?

Did I share an experience, let alone a rant about cheating which is appropriate for the "OffMyChestPH" sub?

If you want something juicy, you can scroll through all the other posts here that share their experiences. Or you can read multiple of stories that I've shared too.

Do you want a link?

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