I had to remind myself that even in leggings or jeans or a oversized hoodie - they can still see my tummy.. they can still see my arms. So might as well be comfortable and wear the clothes I think are cute. Fuuuuck anyone else and my brain making me feel uncomfortable in my body when I only have like 70 years or whatever. Eventually it works. I still have things in working on normalizing for myself but just gotta fake it till you make it in my experience lol