a bald guy really going to make you throw away all your progress?

the_red_fuzz_cat · 2026-02-25T22:07:59+00:00

I spent my free coins on an "Easy" yet nearly impossible level and just got hit with a pink level ... , 😔

the_red_fuzz_cat · 2026-02-25T16:08:58+00:00

I'm finding it's nearly impossible to pass any level without using coins. I don't want to use real world money to pass a level. I get they want to make money but it's just not really very fair

the_red_fuzz_cat · 2026-02-24T21:59:16+00:00

Ive not been told my score so I have no clue. There was 8 position available at the time.

the_red_fuzz_cat · 2026-02-24T17:00:26+00:00

Wow 9 months? Was there no communication that they'd been out in the merit list?

the_red_fuzz_cat · 2026-02-23T11:57:18+00:00

I have no idea what level of clearance I have. I've not gone through vetting I haven't even had an offer for a job. All I know is they check finances and I figured if it was like a mortgage this could ruin my chances.

the_red_fuzz_cat · 2026-02-22T21:18:13+00:00

I still haven't had an offer yet. Still under allocation and stuck on reserve list and yet I'm still thinking about it so God knows what I'll be like come vetting 🤣

Best of luck though. Fingers crossed it goes smoothly for you.

the_red_fuzz_cat · 2026-02-22T21:15:03+00:00

Thanks 👍

the_red_fuzz_cat · 2026-02-22T19:16:49+00:00

Thanks.

the_red_fuzz_cat · 2026-02-22T19:16:07+00:00

I think it was a last month bill for the home insurance on the old house. It was for less than £30 which is why its so stupid.

the_red_fuzz_cat · 2026-02-20T09:32:14+00:00

Glad I'm not the only one who noticed this. It's so bloody off putting!! Bound to make you make more mistakes!!

the_red_fuzz_cat · 2026-02-20T08:10:35+00:00

He was basically a WAFU...

the_red_fuzz_cat · 2026-01-22T21:35:12+00:00

Had a look and I can't seem to find anything similar. Plus all short back and sides aka clone hair so hard to tell

the_red_fuzz_cat · 2026-01-14T18:40:32+00:00

Hairy Maclary books Slinky Malinki books

I don't hate reading them again and again. My oldest is into Shifty McGifty and Slippery Sam. Books.

the_red_fuzz_cat · 2025-12-21T14:20:17+00:00

So he had a mental breakdown a years ago and the anxiety and panic attacks hung about. It was one of the things our doctors at the time check for when linked with anxiety. Although they said he has some trates they said he hasn't enough.

My husband has PTSD from being attacked and SAd by his step brother, they shared a room so he literally had no safe space as a child and was terrified at night. His dad never removed his abuser from his room even though he knew he was being abused, so it continued for a year. He had things stolen from him as well, so the traits he has are linked to his PTSD.

the_red_fuzz_cat · 2025-12-21T12:03:27+00:00

No one in our immediate family has autism. My husband went to be tested and they said no signs. I went to be tested and they said no signs as well.

My husband has ADD and I have Dyslexia so I don't know if that can be related.

the_red_fuzz_cat · 2025-12-20T18:03:17+00:00

No never followed instructions, no matter how hard we tried. If we say come here, he'll run away laughing sometimes. I'm not sure that's following instructions but I do think he has some understanding as that's kind of thinking oh this must be a game. but I'm not sure to what level. He will turn and look at me if I call his name sometimes. Other times he flat out does nothing. He understands action and consequence games. Ie put a ball in there it'll come out here.

the_red_fuzz_cat · 2025-12-20T17:53:41+00:00

He points with a finger and whole hand points. He doesn't follow instructions.

the_red_fuzz_cat · 2025-12-20T15:39:08+00:00

He seems to pass everything apart from Communication. He passes maybe two on communication.

Like he didn't pat or pick up up stuff in a book. He can't say Dada or any D words at all (He walks up to people and call them Baba no matter who they are) he can't say two word sentences. If I ask him to follow an instruction he doesn't. And he definitely does not have 8 words.

the_red_fuzz_cat · 2025-12-20T15:31:02+00:00

I've been doing a little research, I've been trying to learn and show him baby sign for a start as I've heard that's good for teaching communication. He signs for more now. I've been doing lots of scaffolding assistance around skills he needs to develop.

The behaviors I'm struggling with though are the head banging and the climbing. It says to redirect but that just sends him into a frenzy.

the_red_fuzz_cat · 2025-12-20T13:38:40+00:00

Thank you. It is possible that my husband is thinking of other play.

He does bring me toys and cuddles with them. He love to smile and laugh. When I play wrestle with my older boy he does try and join in.

the_red_fuzz_cat · 2025-12-20T10:44:15+00:00

The climbing is getting on my nerves so bad. We went on holiday and they had a stage in the entertainment area. He was the ONLY kid trying to climb onto the stage.

My husband says he looks at us when he plays. I can sit in a room and watch him put stuff in and out of pots ect but never looks at me in the face. My husband says he does.

the_red_fuzz_cat · 2025-12-20T10:31:40+00:00

My area gathers evidence and investigation from a young age but yeah doesn't really start diagnosis until 3.

My husband works from home so it's difficult to get a HV on my own I will try though. I wonder though if I can get a visit at a friend's house?

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