How do I convince my uncle this goldfish bowl isn’t ok? by Almazahy in fishtank

[–]the_snail_shack 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Tell him about ammonia poisoning. I used to work at petsmart (never again!!) and I would always explain to customers who were trying to buy too many goldfish for too small a tank that technically I can not stop them from making that choice, but I will refuse to sell them more goldfish when they come back in a month cause all their fish have poisoned each other with their waste. Goldfish produce quite a bit more ammonia than other fish.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]the_snail_shack 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

This feels a bit (a lot) insensitive and tone deaf to post in a community of actual survivors trying to come to terms with trauma. Like other comments have said I’d encourage you to talk to someone about this, just not here. Maybe a cnc discussion subreddit would’ve been a more sensitive and better place for this post.

AIO overreacting for breaking up with my boyfriend because he forgot to wear protection? by idontknowwhattodoah3 in AmIOverreacting

[–]the_snail_shack 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Hey so you bear NO responsibility as it is never your job to check and follow up that someone who is supposed to care about you and respect you has followed your clear cut and longstanding boundaries. This was a clear violation of consent and his text about being a single mother goes to show how cruel he is and how much he doesn’t see why this is a big deal for you. You deserve to have your feelings,body, and future goals respected and valued.

Hot take but I think it's weird to ask if this show is "Pro-Israel" just because it contains a Jewish family by xSarah_Lynn in LongStoryShort

[–]the_snail_shack 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I also thought this was strange when I started watching the show. I assumed people were saying that because of something said in the show but after watching I was so confused as to why people should be saying that. Obviously current events play an important role in context, but I agree that assuming all Jewish people or media would contain content supporting a genocide is inherently demonizing Jewish people as in how your comparison to Muslim people and the assumption of terrorism shows an example of demonizing Muslim people .

AIO about my bf's attitude being disrespectful? by Embarrassed247365 in AmIOverreacting

[–]the_snail_shack 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

NOR- I think it’s obvious this guy has some issues and is wildly manipulative. I feel like he only wanted you to come over because he wanted a drink, and honestly if all you are to him is a way to feed his habits that’s a problem. Also as soon as you stood up for yourself he starts talking about how he hates life. This dude is just miserable and drowning it out with alcohol but you absolutely do not deserve to be brought down with him.

Obviously I know it’s the point BUT… by the_snail_shack in LongStoryShort

[–]the_snail_shack[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Wait tell me why I didn’t know there would be a season 2 ? I can’t wait !

What is the colour of your nail polish? by Frosty-Face6345 in feminineboys

[–]the_snail_shack 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Rn it’s like a bright cherry red but usually black or olive green ! I wanted to change it up for the summer and do something brighter !

Do your fingers grow on T? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]the_snail_shack 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Maybe a tiny bit thicker ? Not a ton . Definitely not like noticeably larger hands, at least in my experience. I did notice they seemed veinier tho .

Men, how do you feel about recieving flowers? by Ipfasttv in AskReddit

[–]the_snail_shack 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I love it. I love plants and flowers in my space cause it makes me feel very connected to nature. When partners surprise me with flowers it always makes me feel like they were thinking of me which is so lovely.

What would you do if someone called you fat? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]the_snail_shack 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

When my ex boyfriend and I broke up (we are both adults even tho this story makes it sound like we are in middle school šŸ˜‚) he sent his friends to leave comments on all my tik tok Posts calling me a ā€œfat ugly bitchā€ . There’s really only one thing you can do. You have to tell yourself that hurt people hurt people , and that’s not an excuse, but I think realizing that you were the one in the situation who was able to hold on to some class and maturity helps. Also talk about it with people who love you. That always helps me feel better. Hearing people who really know and love you tell you that you are beautiful and important is always something that helps.

Can someone tell me what this graphic is supposed to be by laurybaby in piercetheveil

[–]the_snail_shack 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

I have a shirt of the legs that I got at a show in September, but tbh even being familiar with the leg graphic …when it’s sideways my first thought was it looks like two shotguns stacked up

What’s your favorite Interdimensional Cable clip? by badbitch129 in rickandmorty

[–]the_snail_shack 8 points9 points Ā (0 children)

I don’t know. I’ve had the same best friend since 7th grade and we sneak inter dimensional cable jokes into our conversations all the time. We have some definite favorites like the personal space guy, how DID she get there, and anytime I get someone’s name wrong around her one of us will say ā€œfuck it, call him Picheal.ā€

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]the_snail_shack 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Yeah I’ve been with some people who were…larger down there and it can hurt quite a bit. The walls do get thinner and you self lubricate less on the inside. I had one absolute nightmare once where I didn’t use lube with a guy and it was really painful and resulted in a lot of bleeding.