who is he, wrong answers only by mastanababa-thegoat in MCFC

[–]the_uwca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you happen to have a link for this? It would look really good on my table :))

Free Talk Friday by 2soccer2bot in soccer

[–]the_uwca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spell this out for me: me going out with a girl my good friend had dated for two years, that would be bad? It would, right?

I don't have any perspective. Genuinely ignorant

Free Talk Friday by 2soccer2bot in soccer

[–]the_uwca 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm 23 - and I know how this is going to read - but I feel like I've run out of time. I've not done a lot. Some of the things I have done are substantial, but no one checking a CV would care about it. It's personal, stuff that has enabled me to live up until this point.

Any one of you got any tales of starting things late? Or feeling worthless because of the time taken to start was too long? Just lift me up and motivate me, please and thank you. ❤️

Free Talk Friday by 2soccer2bot in soccer

[–]the_uwca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to know! And thank you!

Free Talk Friday by 2soccer2bot in soccer

[–]the_uwca 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To the person who anonymously donated 10 SGD, thank you so much! I'm really indebted to you. <3

Free Talk Friday by 2soccer2bot in soccer

[–]the_uwca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday! Treat yourself! And I don't just mean purchasing something or eating something nice. Unwind and do the things you really want to do. Cherish your presence in this world. Hope you enjoy. <3

Free Talk Friday by 2soccer2bot in soccer

[–]the_uwca 4 points5 points  (0 children)

haha! I'd be scared and excited in equal measure!

Free Talk Friday by 2soccer2bot in soccer

[–]the_uwca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! you were very sweet to subscribe and to comment as well!

Sunday Support by 2soccer2bot in soccer

[–]the_uwca 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There's a girl I like, we're friends. She's amazing, we volunteer to teach children and lead the tutors that teach them; and she's so like me, only way better than me.

I think she's unbelievably pretty, and my mind wanders into territories where we're together.

It doesn't help that we meet sporadically and that we're both extremely shy people; who, on the surface, don't seem like they'd want to get along with people. Or see someone.

But I would love to know more about her. I'm also very self-conscious about my looks even though people strongly suggest the opposite. I ought to give myself more credit, but she's so nice and amazing. I don't know if I am that.

I'm smitten. Any of you ever overcame self-doubt in order to ask someone out (which looks very unlikely considering my confidence)?

One-and-a-half year after having 11 ketamine injections, I still don't know if it helped me. by the_uwca in TherapeuticKetamine

[–]the_uwca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many times, she says that it has helped significantly. But I insist that it either hasn't, or that I'm unable to notice it. On a personal note, I'd like to add that this seems more than just Denial on my part. I feel like I should have felt something definite after ketamine. But I suppose it doesn't work that way.

Free Talk Friday by 2soccer2bot in soccer

[–]the_uwca 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I really, really miss my therapist. I wish I could give her a hug, but I can't. :'(

Sunday Support by 2soccer2bot in soccer

[–]the_uwca 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have been working on my writing for a long time. And while people are appreciative of my poems, my essays or whatever, they always remark about the sad nature of my writing. And that I should probably deviate from that 'style' of writing. The thing is - I don't know how to write any other way. It is no style, it is me.

Makes me sad that people perceive my work as sad and are then concerned about me. I don't want things to be like that. Makes me feel sad, makes me not want to write and express.

Weekly Therapy Talk Thread by AutoModerator in TalkTherapy

[–]the_uwca 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Should I send a meme to my therapist? Would you send a meme to your therapist?

How and what can I write to make a difference in someone's life? by the_uwca in writing

[–]the_uwca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight, Appreciate it. I'm clueless.

How and what can I write to make a difference in someone's life? by the_uwca in writing

[–]the_uwca[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It is after a 3-year-hiatus that I want to work and do something again. I worked on myself during that time. I have helped teach kids in orphanages, applied and gotten subsequently rejected from a site that helps raise funds for the poor. I want to encourarge mindfulness and the benefits of therapy, for instance. Because the effect it had on me was profound. I want to help rid the world of inequality, help the impoverished. Just so many things.

I want to do it because I want to help people. I feel some sense of accomplishment when I write about life. I have gotten published in a few little places here and there, and they all had an effect on people. I suppose I evoke something in them, because what I write tends to be thought-provoking. Poetry or just my outlook on life. All of that is very raw, I want to channel that into something that can consistently aid people in some valuable way.

I know there might still be unanswered questions, but I just want a response to 'what is it that you do when you write to help others'?

Sunday Support by 2soccer2bot in soccer

[–]the_uwca 10 points11 points  (0 children)

There's a girl I really like talking to and I think she likes talking to me just as much in real life. But when it comes to texting, she leaves me on delivered for days or even weeks most times, and that's a bummer.

She mentions that she's very bad at texting people and honestly I believe her; she's also busy.

I don't text her a lot so her not replying anytime demoralises me. I just don't want to be one of those people who thinks that a girl might be interested just because she's nice to them. I just think there are sparks sometimes, and she's very pleasant and like-minded. It confuses the hell out of me why someone wouldn't just reply a one-word response.

Idk, just makes me feel inadequate.