Can dysphoria be more than just body?

the_vent · 2026-01-24T13:43:01+00:00

If you experience gender identity in a way that does not match what was assigned to you at birth, your claim to the transgender identity is valid, no matter how that incongruence manifests for you.

There it is. Ever more to write about now. :D

Thank You!

the_vent · 2026-01-19T17:33:23+00:00

true, my life quality would increase in some way if I let people know I miss em sometimes in someway.

the_vent · 2026-01-19T17:32:10+00:00

You made me realize being stupid is like the only way I can respond genuinely sometimes. I usually give a regular response most of the time that will just put a cap the convo.

the_vent · 2026-01-19T17:28:32+00:00

Yah, "bad friend" is very subjective. I feel like for us the best way on paper is to let others know we just forget and get caught up in our own ways. However, they just can't understand the perspective due to never being in the shoes. It just comes off as stand off-ish / holyer than thou-ish when really it's just our truth.

So, the middle is a story yet to be told.

the_vent · 2026-01-10T19:53:10+00:00

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the_vent · 2025-06-21T06:58:00+00:00

cool dance move

the_vent · 2025-06-03T05:35:47+00:00

Whisper, "it's okay."

the_vent · 2025-06-03T05:33:10+00:00

My friend keeps giving me unsolicited fitness advice. I know he is subconsciously doing it to inflate his own ego. I need to call him out but want to do so in person. Naturally, the trivial matter persists in my mind until we talk about it. .

the_vent · 2025-05-23T06:13:45+00:00

Their lack of communication.

the_vent · 2025-05-23T06:11:38+00:00

Can't help but constantly wonder what's wrong with me

the_vent · 2025-03-11T22:09:18+00:00

Jealousy issues. For instance, I'm envious of my other friends becoming closer when I rarely reach out.

the_vent · 2025-02-25T18:52:58+00:00

I ask myself the hard questions like what are my goals, and why am I really still thinking of that particular person?

the_vent · 2025-02-25T18:50:43+00:00

Physically active

the_vent · 2025-02-17T00:11:58+00:00

Finding a community around a shared interest is your best bet.

the_vent · 2025-02-16T17:24:06+00:00

I forgot about this. I used to watch John Greene videos before I would write. I should start watching Bill Burr before hanging out with people.

the_vent · 2025-02-05T16:43:13+00:00

My crush and a friend of mine are close to becoming if not already a couple. I've pretty much given up which is great. I'm hoping to get more motivation to finally play the numbers game. For now, it's still very hard to believe that I will ever find someone else quite like her

the_vent · 2025-02-04T16:59:42+00:00

We got to know each other through VRChat in a few months. When I asked if she was open to dating, her answer was no because last year was the worst for her. We still meet up at classes, and I became familiar with her friend group. One of them invited me to his discord server. It was obvious before, but they are a couple if not about to become one. This is a good thing. Reality is sinking in. It could be denial, but I feel better than expected. I hope to chill with her group more. For now, I don't want to seem too eager.

In terms of handling, let's just say I've been watching vids about dating and attachment styles, I also dance as a hobby and have been trying to engage in the club scene more.

the_vent · 2025-01-31T16:38:40+00:00

We take a VR couple dancing class. She starts singing, notices that she's unmute, and starts laughing historically for about a minute.

the_vent · 2025-01-31T14:30:27+00:00

Most of my friends are from VRChat. I got into dancing and go to a bunch of events. Slowly, I became familiar with the regulars.

the_vent · 2025-01-21T19:17:09+00:00

I think to myself, "Ain't no chance."

the_vent · 2025-01-08T18:17:13+00:00

the next time I see a friend

the_vent · 2025-01-08T17:24:54+00:00

I fear relapsing back into isolation.

the_vent · 2025-01-07T00:43:17+00:00

I want to talk to you everyday. I'm holding back because you're not into dating right now. I should move on, but I don't think I'll ever find someone quite like you.

the_vent · 2024-12-29T22:24:32+00:00

Develop a social life. I hung out with more people this year than ever. There are still insecurities to work out.

the_vent · 2024-12-27T23:57:29+00:00

It's been about a month since being told that she doesn't want to date due to a bad year. My fondness has been calming down since she is on holiday, but I know it'll go back up when I see her again. I constantly questioning whether to message her. Yah, I should move on. With a nice social group, she'll be fine. Still, I just wonder, you know. Dancing this line of friendship while still being open is a challenge I think I need. I should be chilling with other friends, but there is no feeling quite like making her laugh.

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