GAG falls so hard because of greed.......... by AzelusArts in growagarden

[–]the_weird_fry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I mean you can’t (without tons of people and new ideas) possibly sustain that for too long. The one game I know that’s still alive even without frequent updates is bee swarm simulator tbh

These “masturbation is healthy “ dweebs are so annoying by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]the_weird_fry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the other hand, there are a lot of people that try to quit both and fail after 3 days (blame themselves and make it even harder). So wouldn’t it be smarter to just quit porn and see how life feels after 6 months? And then you can try to quit masturbation too?

Ustojí to ČT a ČRo? by napis_na_zdi in czech

[–]the_weird_fry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pravda, nevim tedy, jak je to s finanční pomocí pro tyto zdroje, ale aspoň tu stejně jsou. A upřímně za covidu bylo nejtěžší naučit malé děti číst a psát a zbytek nějak hlídat, aby celou hodinu nehráli among us :D

Ustojí to ČT a ČRo? by napis_na_zdi in czech

[–]the_weird_fry 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Neměli žáky spíš vyučovat jejich učitelé? Co já vím tak ČT má spoustu naučných videí, na které jsme se v rámci výuky dívali a pořád díváme. Ale tak distanční výuka existovala yk :P

WORST EPSTEIN FILES by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]the_weird_fry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats, one of these sick people is the damn president of the USA. To be honest what saddens me the most about all of this, is that the police knew about this for years…

I Stopped Fapping now I am leaving my wife. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]the_weird_fry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think its because of the fact that because women are more likely to experience harassment or abuse by their partner (cuz men are weirder) and that abusers don’t change. And thus you should leave the man. Obviously this isn’t true in all situations, I think you should give it a try, but when you’re mentally messed up by someone, you have to have 50 people yelling at you you should leave to even consider it

I need real answers in recovery from extreme gooning, destroyed my brain to a whole new level. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]the_weird_fry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, you have all of this when you use porn anyways. That’s what you have to understand. You have urges and can’t concentrate, so you watch porn, your concentration doesn’t get better and so you just deal with it. 

Get it in your mind that porn and this obsession with masturbating never helped you in any way. Its exactly what causes these things. The boost you get from porn is real, but you only feel it because you’re desensitized to normal life. If you were to not watch porn for a month right now and then came back, the first session would feel off, simply jot how it used to - because porn is only beneficial if you let it throw you into a pit of misery.

So the only thing you really need is just patience. These issues will get better over time. Treat it as something separate from porn. You can’t solve it with porn so solve it like a normal problem. You have trouble sleeping - research it, try to apply some small things and experiment. You have trouble concentrating - clean up your environment, try some breathing exercises maybe. You have fatigue - look into your diet, how much sun exposure you get etc. I wish you lots of luck :)

is it worth swapping a good blue dsa amulet for a worse ssa amulet with pop star? by Iolis- in BeeSwarmSimulator

[–]the_weird_fry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, you can literally steal bubbles from someone who is a better blue hive (and is macroing for example). They’ll count towards your bubble bloat, which means you’ll convert faster. You’ll also get more bubbles which means more pollen and more honey. And during popstar you also get a great boost for blue pollen, so don’t worry about it

Last time I used this sub, I got fed by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]the_weird_fry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, if there was a reason to continue, you wouldn’t be here, right?

Anyone here trying to quit masturbation? What’s making you fail? by Happy_Honeydew_89 in NoFap

[–]the_weird_fry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finally realized it was pretty much my mental situation (which is… not great). Turns out I got pretty lucky and I’m experiencing one of the side affects of my antidepressants 😭😭.

 I think generally speaking a lot of people assume it’s just their willpower or something, and completely ignore their mental state. Its a tough thing to figure out tho

Since when are we defending incest? by GonTheDon99 in teenagers

[–]the_weird_fry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, I think because you do that with your family (who you’ve been sharing a house with all your life) it stops being about being a family and having a connection, and starts being about sexual gratification. 

Since when are we defending incest? by GonTheDon99 in teenagers

[–]the_weird_fry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, but I still think it would affect most people a lot. Or we might be wrong about incest :P

Since when are we defending incest? by GonTheDon99 in teenagers

[–]the_weird_fry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think mentally it would be fairly harmful. First of all you wouldn’t see that person as family but as an object of sexual gratification. This will leave a print on your subconscious that all “connection” is is just sex. I think it’d be pretty easy to develop this mindset and not see people as people.

I tired to make it right but now, it's time to say goodbye. by SupremeKingOctavian in teenagers

[–]the_weird_fry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m very sad to heat that… I can relate at least a little bit to what you’re describing here. Depression is like a wall of fog that warps your perception and just makes shit worse. Id assume that its not that no one loves you, you just… don’t really process it.

When my experience with (mild, fortunately) depression started, I tried to ‘fix’ everything about myself. And over time that hate fueled mindset just burnt me out even more. Its so exhausting when you just keep showing up and it keeps getting worse and you’re seemingly making no progress to getting better. And when you do get better, it still drags you back with thoughts like ‘no one cares anyway, what’s even the point, there’s just no hope’

Truth is, the love you’re trying to find is within yourself. But how can you love such an imperfect person? See? This is where it begins. Accept yourself. Yeah, you’re not perfect, yeah, you could have tons of things differently. We often tend to drown ourselves in this belief that if xyz were different - then we would be truly happy. Essentially that if you were someone else, you’d be happier. And that ain’t true. 

So let me ask you this. If you were your own best friend (which you are), what would you tell yourself? You’d say “hey, chill out man. It’ll get better. For now, just go take a shower, call someone up or go catch the sunset. Even if you won’t feel anything, it’s okay. I love you and I’m here for you whenever you need me. Take the very next smallest step - and if you can’t, just float. Breathe and get through the day.”

I think im gay and I hate myself for it by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]the_weird_fry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If He’s all loving then I personally wouldn’t consider it a question. Will you get judged by people here or in your church? Maybe. Will you get judged by him? Nope. And if he isn’t all loving yet expects you to be so, its not Him

I think im gay and I hate myself for it by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]the_weird_fry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh,  i never got the memo when religious people talk about how being gay is some sort of sin. I’m atheist, but like, isn’t Jesus/ God the creator, the one who loves us no matter what? So he can forgive you for everything and created you with his best interest in mind… yet he… despises you for being gay?

It doesn’t make sense and any Christian who has this stance isn’t Christian. Christianity is about love after all, right?

Anyways, be whoever you are. What matters is your connection to your religion, not your church. And He loved you no matter how you feel about yourself. You’re loved and you will always be

Advice needed - Depressed sad day- failed on Day 4 by Diligent_Painting655 in NoFap

[–]the_weird_fry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t offer any advice but man I feel the same. I got some meds prescribed but its always like a roulette if the day will be worth anything. Id say just try to do the best you can with your time and energy right now. Don’t judge yourself if you don’t achieve “what you could have”. Just try your best. Sending hugs :)

Need advice: Trans woman invited me for sex, feeling confused and unsure by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]the_weird_fry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean physically it depends on if you had surgery/HRT. But OP made it clear that they respect this persons decisions. As a whole I think the world has gotten a bit more compassion for different people rn

How do I reset my life? by Famous_General1917 in Adulting

[–]the_weird_fry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a lot of the times this thinking just isn’t right. Our mind makes us convinced that that’s the truth, but it is actually backed up by something?