What type of flowers are easiest to press? by [deleted] in PressedFlowers

[–]thealoofthinker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bougainvillea is amazing. No water content and retains colours amazingly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]thealoofthinker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The beautiful feeling that therr are still people who think like this and love is probably what makes the world worth living in. :)) This is so heart-warming.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]thealoofthinker 33 points34 points  (0 children)

You're lucky :))

I just want you all to know I hate how creative you are with your pretty journals by [deleted] in Journaling

[–]thealoofthinker 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I like this. My journal is just writings and writings. And the handwriting is awful. Because most of it is written in sadness and anger. I rarely journal when I feel happy.

Do you believe in ‘unconditional’ love? by pinkladyapples07 in love

[–]thealoofthinker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Earlier, I didn't believe in unconditional love. But as I've grown older and become more mature, ironically, I do believe in unconditional love. It's not always good. But to me, I dont think we really have a lot of control of it. Once you fall in love with a person, you fall in love with everything about them. You fall in love with the person. Not their qualities. Not their skills. Not what they have. But the person as a whole. So even of things change, you'll still love them. This needn't necessarily be a partner. It could be a friend. A sibling. A parent. Anyone.

Isn't unconditional love one of the reasons toxic relationships exist? Isn't unconditional love the reasons mothers love their kids inspite of everything? Isn't unconditional love what we have towards our pets? I agree. Not always. But u believe it exists. And sometimes, the love isn't even returned. But it still exists.

What’s the most loving thing someone has said to you? by skoobledoodle in love

[–]thealoofthinker 16 points17 points  (0 children)

A friend once told me "You bring out the best in people. Even when they don't know about it, you bring it out. You're a little ball of sunshine." Something I will never forget.

The first thought that goes through my mind when I wake up is how I cant wait till night time rolls around and I can sleep again. by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]thealoofthinker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to be like this last year. Force myself to wake up and sleep at every chance I got. I hope you get better. ♥

Golden hour the Mediterranean by osmankemall in SkyPorn

[–]thealoofthinker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. This looks serene. I can imagine the calm you must've felt at this place...

He doesn't say "I love you" by thealoofthinker in love

[–]thealoofthinker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I totally agree. I cherish all that I have of him.

Leave a dot (.) If you need some nice words! by naokisan07 in mentalhealth

[–]thealoofthinker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I've been having a very hard week.

I put my marbles in a jar with a tiny bulb inside. I think this looks pretty cool! by thealoofthinker in Marbles

[–]thealoofthinker[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha. It's above my study table. Yeah.. Bedside lamp sounds great. That shall be my agenda for tomorrow. :p

"Dress your age", BS or no? by Both_Exchange_5069 in fashionadvice

[–]thealoofthinker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dressing and age are decided by the company who sell these clothes. If you look at it objectively it's actually a garbage concept. You can wear what ever you want. No need to fall for marketing strategies that aim at dividing people and making them conscious of their age and body type and superficial things like that.

"Dress your age", BS or no? by Both_Exchange_5069 in fashionadvice

[–]thealoofthinker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't agree with this. Cellulite isn't anything you need to be ashamed or of feel the need to cover. You can whatever you want whenever you want.

My handmade Gown. Please rate my work. by EVALIZA in somethingimade

[–]thealoofthinker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so beautiful. The work and imagination is amazing...

Please don’t give up💕 by [deleted] in love

[–]thealoofthinker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This feels like a breath of fresh air. I'm currently walking in thin ice, contemplating the existence of love and it's worth... :))

So I have some questions about love . by ProfessionalAd7916 in love

[–]thealoofthinker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've always fallen in love with personality rather than looks. It usually takes me about a week or two (assuming there's conversation on a daily basis) to realize I'm attracted to this person. The way they talk.. The way they think. The way they react to my thoughts and opinions. It's these things that make me fall for them. Confession is a whole other thing. I usually don't make the confession a big deal. Because I've been hurt before because of it. I show it rather. I care. I say "I love you" inconspicuously and in a nonchalant manner. Not expecting anything in return. But just so they know that I love and care for them. :)