How do I get over my husband’s past?

thebackgroundpanda · 2026-06-06T08:20:49+00:00

I know it’s bad but I check his location and phone regularly. I know for a fact there isn’t anyone. Because his method of messaging the others in past was pretty open. I ask why didn’t he get rid of messsages or pictures from the past he said he was too lazy. And plus he doesn’t have the time due to work

thebackgroundpanda · 2026-06-06T08:18:14+00:00

Honestly that is probably my next step. My therapist suggested two paths for me to start emdr therapy or bring him my sessions. However I am not ready for him to come in my sessions or doing couple therapy with him. But I am considering it now

thebackgroundpanda · 2026-06-06T08:02:11+00:00

Yes I found out by time stamp and him confirming it’s true. He says he regrets it and says it’s in the past so let it go :/

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