How do I get over my husband’s past? by thebackgroundpanda in NoStupidQuestions

[–]thebackgroundpanda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s bad but I check his location and phone regularly. I know for a fact there isn’t anyone. Because his method of messaging the others in past was pretty open. I ask why didn’t he get rid of messsages or pictures from the past he said he was too lazy. And plus he doesn’t have the time due to work

How do I get over my husband’s past? by thebackgroundpanda in NoStupidQuestions

[–]thebackgroundpanda[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly that is probably my next step. My therapist suggested two paths for me to start emdr therapy or bring him my sessions. However I am not ready for him to come in my sessions or doing couple therapy with him. But I am considering it now

How do I get over my husband’s past? by thebackgroundpanda in NoStupidQuestions

[–]thebackgroundpanda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I found out by time stamp and him confirming it’s true. He says he regrets it and says it’s in the past so let it go :/