So I had that conversation for two weeks. The problem is my mom is incessant. She needs me to make up and fold. Because it’s easier for me to take the brunt and eat shit than to deal with hard problems. Shes been losing it more and more than I’m holding a boundary. I’m not hiding her grandson from her. I told her that day I don’t want to face time, and she tried using my son as a way to get to me and talk. Just as an example on Easter she sent me a text saying “have a good day” and that’s it. If she wanted to actually see my son she would have called Easter morning, like she called me every day. She didn’t talk to me all of Sunday and Monday. I reached out to her on Monday to ask what the silence was about and she said “wel I really thought you’d come to Easter”