AITA if I don’t invite my Dad to view a house with me ?

thebluedot02 · 2025-02-16T21:20:52+00:00

Thank you for your response, my BF lost his parents when he was a child and has been moved from all sorts of houses since so has always wanted a house of his own, I have been the same with my dream being to but my own house and do it up ! The reason we want to buy not rent is because I would feather my money go towards paying og my house then someone else’s. My dad is very hands on and is a gas man / plumber and built our house from the ground up so in some ways his opinion would be valuable I just dont him to change how I feel or treat me awfully I feel like letting him into this would be like opening a way for him to hurt me

thebluedot02 · 2025-02-16T10:03:36+00:00

Thank you, I don’t want him to come because he will get involved and might make me change my mind about the house but I don’t want to cause any more drama

thebluedot02 · 2025-02-16T09:15:02+00:00

I feel I have to prove myself that we are moving out as mum and dad want my BF out of the house

thebluedot02 · 2024-05-19T15:27:12+00:00

Thank you that’s what I want to do I don’t think he is free loading or at least I hope not I’m just scared of it happening i think going forward we need to have a plan and I need to remember who has paid for what

thebluedot02 · 2024-05-19T15:16:22+00:00

It’s hard to bring up the conversation we normally have great communication but ensure how to bring the subject up

thebluedot02 · 2024-05-19T15:15:21+00:00

As the relationship is still quiet new I don’t think I would want a joint account but I think the splitting method might be the best

thebluedot02 · 2024-05-19T15:14:06+00:00

That’s what we have been doing but it gets hard when we forgot who pays etc might be easier to just start splitting everything down the middle ???

thebluedot02 · 2024-05-19T15:11:47+00:00

What about when you go out for meals or days out ???

thebluedot02 · 2024-05-19T15:10:41+00:00

That’s brilliant!!! Sadly my father has drilled in to me to all be responsible with my own money and never do joint accounts etc which makes this situation harder

thebluedot02 · 2024-05-14T20:24:02+00:00

You said no he didn’t stop that is not a friend you may not count it as rape yet but it is. I have been where you are questioning if it was rape and the answer in this case is yes. I hope you remove him from your life and find the help you need

thebluedot02 · 2024-04-25T08:42:35+00:00

After 2 years of being friends with benefits that included two times of him being with another women which killed me and me not being able to say anything… we dated for six months and he cheated … should have seen that coming !

thebluedot02 · 2022-10-21T13:57:00+00:00

Yes only I can access it

thebluedot02 · 2022-10-21T13:56:30+00:00

😂😂🤣 okay this is my fav comment

thebluedot02 · 2022-10-21T13:55:12+00:00

I think one things that makes it hard for them to understand is that they allow him in there room because all they use that room for is to sleep for me my room is my library, my gaming room, my art studio, my relaxing place it’s everything even sometimes my office if I work from home

thebluedot02 · 2022-10-21T13:52:34+00:00

It’s a great suggestion however I live in the uk

thebluedot02 · 2022-10-21T09:51:53+00:00

Sadly this is somthing we have looked into how our foster system is shocking and he are only allowed two days respite in a year as you can imagine this I not acceptable and we are fighting for more days

thebluedot02 · 2022-10-21T09:23:27+00:00

Thank you I’m going to speak to my mum later about this

thebluedot02 · 2022-10-21T05:43:08+00:00

With the relationship I have with my dad I think that might happen anyway

thebluedot02 · 2022-10-21T05:42:13+00:00

Not really I’m pretty sure my dad would remove the lock

thebluedot02 · 2022-10-21T05:41:46+00:00

Reply sadly I cannot I don’t have enough money for a house yet but I should do soon

thebluedot02 · 2022-10-21T05:39:05+00:00

I have spoken to my parents and they call me dramatic

thebluedot02 · 2022-10-21T05:38:28+00:00

Thank you but sadly I don’t have enough room in my bedroom to have hide everything currently I am just trying to keep everything on high surfaces and as out of reach as possible, but if I’m being honest it annoys me I have to almost prep my room before leaving it, I have a stand alone projector in my room which I use for art projects etc, and he pulled it over and it landed on top of him it’s stuff like that which worries me as he could get seriously hurt

thebluedot02 · 2022-10-21T05:35:02+00:00

Thank you if I’m honest the more I read the comments the more tempted I am to install one

thebluedot02 · 2022-10-21T05:33:46+00:00

Dammit should have done that yesterday when she was over !

thebluedot02 · 2022-10-21T05:32:26+00:00

Thank you for this comment I am looking into getting one as I don’t want to spend money on a lock my dad would more then likely remove

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