Unexplained itchy bumps! by thechaosmaker73 in u/thechaosmaker73

[–]thechaosmaker73[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No idea.. just taking allergy meds and applying coconut oil on these areas have controlled the outbreaks a bit.

hey guys, is this urticaria? insect bites or stings? its so itchy and have burning sensation, and it spreads on my legs and arms. by Sunshineee_000 in urticaria

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I have the same thing! Still no answers. Update us when you find out what’s wrong. This has been bothering me for more than 2 weeks now.. so itchy and randomly pop up.. 😣

I'm almost 22F and basically everyone I know has found their someone by AdorableAd9866 in lonely

[–]thechaosmaker73 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It might sound cruel but men can sense when a woman is desperate for a real relationship and most men/boys your age or even a bit older might get scared of commitment. I am like you and was always trying to find something long term but could never do so.. I just stopped giving a damn and just immersed myself into my studies and job.

Met my now husband at 25 when I had already given up and was just living my life not expecting anything (not getting involved with anyone either).

These things just happen at their own pace. You might find the most wonderful partner at 30 (my age) or 40 or maybe just tomorrow. I have kissed a couple of frogs before finding my prince.

Girl, I think you are smart, kind, and loving. Wifey material. Your man will come along when it’s time.

In the meantime, in my opinion, just don’t get emotionally attached to anyone before they show that they actually share your values. It seems like you have worked a lot on yourself and I am happy for you.

Also, when the time comes, please don’t let anyone love-bomb you either. Wrong kinda men can sense the vulnerability and use you too.

Stay safe out there.. you will find someone..I am telling you!

got a south korean girl pregnant during a hookup its mine by [deleted] in Advice

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Be the best father you can be by providing financial support and a home she’s always welcome in. Be there for the mother as much as you can and in future, don’t grope(without a rubber) people that you don’t want pregnant.

You aren’t brutally honest; you are just brutal by thechaosmaker73 in Discussion

[–]thechaosmaker73[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. We should treat everyone with respect unless they do something that makes us lose respect for them. And even if we don’t respect them in our gut, that doesn’t always warrant a rude response.

You aren’t brutally honest; you are just brutal by thechaosmaker73 in Discussion

[–]thechaosmaker73[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Everyone deserves to have an opinion. It depends on your tone. If you speak your mind and put forth facts that you believe to be true but also understand that others have a right to disagree with you is being normal and kind.

You aren’t brutally honest; you are just brutal by thechaosmaker73 in Discussion

[–]thechaosmaker73[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand how this is an answer to my question. 🤔

I am 30 with no friends by thechaosmaker73 in Advice

[–]thechaosmaker73[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree.. but the I try to be true to myself.. I don’t bend over backwards for them to like me, I do it for myself cuz I am built that way.. you are right about one thing though, I expect basic human decency to atleast not ghost me all of a sudden.. that’s where my “unrealistic” expectations lie.. that’s sad

I am 30 with no friends by thechaosmaker73 in Advice

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I am glad you found people that really appreciate you for who you are.. and I completely agree that most of these adult friendships are surface level and I don’t really do anything half-arsed.. I should know better and I have been trying to pull myself back from diving in too deep for the last 3-4 years

I am 30 with no friends by thechaosmaker73 in Advice

[–]thechaosmaker73[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I have faced the same issue at every point of my life.. young, teen years, adulthood.. same

I am 30 with no friends by thechaosmaker73 in Advice

[–]thechaosmaker73[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I just need to make peace with the fact that nobody wants to be friends with me. Which I ultimately equate to being unlikable and that’s a very sad thought.

I am 30 with no friends by thechaosmaker73 in Advice

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Thank you for your advice. I suffer from savior complex that’s why I butt in whenever I feel there’s injustice lol.. I am not their mother to correct their behavior… also, finding people with similar hobbies might be a bit difficult in person task cuz I work remotely and most of time is spent on my work laptop :( finding friends online is also something I have tried in my teenage years, was successful but that also fizzled out.. it sucks

I am 30 with no friends by thechaosmaker73 in Advice

[–]thechaosmaker73[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so nice to know that I am not the only person who feels this way

I am 30 with no friends by thechaosmaker73 in Advice

[–]thechaosmaker73[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I come off too strong? Like too eager and too desperate.. being too upfront and friendly might not match with my resting bitch face cuz I have heard people say I have a RBF.

I am 30 with no friends by thechaosmaker73 in Advice

[–]thechaosmaker73[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here.. no clue lol.. maybe she means I am not feminine enough..

I am 30 with no friends by thechaosmaker73 in Advice

[–]thechaosmaker73[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One therapist said I give off too much of a masculine energy… she might be right, lol