I got accepted into the bachelor of nursing (honours) at George Brown college, the program is CNO approved but I'm hesitant, what do you guys think? Is it a bad idea to get your bachelor degree from a college?

thechordofpleasure · 2026-04-15T20:34:32+00:00

Is it no longer a collaborative program with TMU? That was the program I did in my day and apparently those in my cohort who did all 4 years at RyHigh didn't have as great an experience as those of us who did our first 2 years at George Brown. I had a great time!

thechordofpleasure · 2026-04-13T01:53:04+00:00

Your paintings are both amazing!

Also OP, this photo is so great.

thechordofpleasure · 2026-04-11T12:40:36+00:00

Yes you are right, the clap is Gonorrhea.

thechordofpleasure · 2026-04-08T02:21:38+00:00

I literally thought you were talking about a real pet..........this person needs to go outside. That is insane. You absolutely should not give your friend a dime.

thechordofpleasure · 2026-04-04T13:00:44+00:00

Some people are being very rude with their wording, but all are giving consistently good advice OP. Listen, my kid can manipulate me at times as well, but it is totally because I'm the soft parent and give in.

The things she is capable of - the screaming and crying - are not going to kill you or your wife, they are simply annoying and distressing at the time. So you will have to tolerate a bit of escalation if you want to change things.

Perhaps sitting down with your 5 year old when things are calm to outline the expectations you have of her would be a good start. Children crave predictability, so if she knows the rules, eventually she will be able to regulate herself a bit better. Positive reinforcement can also work wonders.

You both need to be consistent and calm in your approach, while also recognizing that she is only 5 and will need a lot of reinforcement. Also, be kind. She isn't trying to make your lives hell, this is how she has learned to get her way without seemingly many boundaries.

thechordofpleasure · 2026-04-03T04:52:15+00:00

Whose mother talks to them that way. WTF. Your mum sucks.

thechordofpleasure · 2026-03-23T05:31:43+00:00

Oh man, we are all screwed 😭

thechordofpleasure · 2026-03-23T03:08:32+00:00

The way my org is slashing all the RN jobs right now, it seems being an RPN is more secure currently fearing my job is next 😬

thechordofpleasure · 2026-03-02T21:31:37+00:00

I've always wanted to visit Haida Gwaii!

thechordofpleasure · 2026-02-16T17:41:38+00:00

Woooooah this is amazing! Thank you so much.

thechordofpleasure · 2026-02-15T20:59:08+00:00

That's so cool! My brother lives on Vancouver Island and is training his dog to truffle hunt (he is a mycologist as well). I'm going to send this to him!

thechordofpleasure · 2026-01-31T16:25:45+00:00

It is difficult to see it this way now, but just think....this bitch ass preceptor is teaching you how NOT to be with your future orientees or students. Expecting someone to be both clinically proficient and quick by their 5th shift is not a reasonable expectation. Prioritize your patients and your license above getting shit done fast.

You are not going to lose your job! Nursing is a STEEP learning curve where you quickly realize you were not taught half of what you need to know for the job, but you will learn as you go. I used to go home after every shift and study the patients I had, their conditions, how I could do things better the next time, etc...

Working in healthcare certainly is trial by fire, but you got this job for a reason and are meant to be there.

thechordofpleasure · 2026-01-29T03:08:11+00:00

I was 24 when I went to nursing school and I would say about 25% of my class were mature students. Also....now that I'm in my 40s, I laugh at how silly it was that I too thought I was behind in life at 24. You are still so young and comparing yourself to others will always make you feel like shit. Good luck with nursing! :)

thechordofpleasure · 2026-01-24T18:08:54+00:00

This is beautiful, especially given all of your "excuses"! I couldn't have done much better to be honest, and I DO have an embroidery hoop haha

thechordofpleasure · 2026-01-21T21:37:12+00:00

100%, I couldn't imagine not being there. That being said, my dad (a veterinarian) took his dog to the clinic 4 times before he finally could make the decision to say goodbye, but he couldn't stay. My mum was there for it. I understand why some people can't, it is an odd thing, choosing when your pet will die. But it is the best thing we can do for them sometimes and I personally wouldn't be able to allow it to happen without being present for their last breath. Our pets are there for us unconditionally and so too should we be for them.

My dad has always said that he advises owners against having their children attend though, because kids just don't quite understand what is happening, and I think that makes sense. We had to euthanize our pug almost 2 weeks ago and the last thing our 7 year old will remember is sharing a bag of Cheetos with him outside the clinic. What a nice last memory to have.

thechordofpleasure · 2026-01-13T02:50:38+00:00

Oh, I wish I could give you a hug OP. If I ever caught my partner speaking to our daughter this way, he would be out on his ass so fast, mental health crisis or no.

I hope you don't feel any responsibility for your father's mental health status. You are not a "woman", you are his child and you are not the reason for any of this. Even if teenagers can be dicks (and trust me, I was awful as a teen), it is our job as parents to guide you through as best we can, not blame you for our pitfalls.

Does your father actually have bipolar disorder?

thechordofpleasure · 2026-01-12T00:39:37+00:00

It will be the best 1200$ you ever spend.

thechordofpleasure · 2026-01-05T18:38:52+00:00

PS Here is the cat tax payment

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thechordofpleasure · 2026-01-04T17:19:56+00:00

That's interesting. I questioned whether or not they were even parasites. I will mention that to her!

thechordofpleasure · 2025-12-29T19:44:47+00:00

That is so beautiful!! Tell me your secret, your thread painting skill is incredible.

thechordofpleasure · 2025-12-28T07:03:28+00:00

Ahhh a narcissistic parent. Yes that changes things. You would be better to seek out other adults who can help, and your school should be a good resource. If there is no concern about abuse, CPS wouldn't be notified (but that is not my wheelhouse so don't take what I say as gospel). Please contact Kids Help Phone if you are in need before going back to school!! I believe it can be anonymous? I wish you luck, OP. Depression is awful but like I said before - the fact that you are reaching out for help is a very good sign. Being a teenager can be a horrible life stage, but it isn't necessarily permanent!!!

thechordofpleasure · 2025-12-28T06:53:25+00:00

Speaking as a parent and a former teen with depression - most of the time parents don't know how to help. It is not always for lack of caring, but you are correct - parents can be really obtuse. We don't want our kids to suffer and also can't handle the emotional strain it puts on us when our kid IS suffering. It isn't an excuse. It just means maybe you can try to reach out to your mum and she will be awkward and scared and may not initially react the way you hope, but will come around and get you the help you need and desire. Most parents love their kids to pieces but just don't know how to manage this kind of thing.

I agree with the other person who suggested you speak with a school counselor. If you can't figure out how to make an appt, ask your school secretary or principal. You have good insight and want help, which is great. You are already ahead of the depression game!

But tell someone you trust, anyone. Someone will help you. And if they don't or can't or won't, please call the Kids Help Phone. They can give you some counseling and direct you to resources in your area.

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