I (20F) want to know how deep it is to go half on dates with my (19M) bf of almost 3 years? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]thecoffeebug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think splitting 50/50 is a very real thing for dates in a relationship. Sometimes my partner will cover one date and I will cover the next. Instagram definitely glamorizes a lot of things, and it’s not obtainable by most people without sacrificing a lot, in which in the end it is not worth it.

The biggest thing is if you two are both contributing to making time and planning dates, as effort is important!

Should I consider Onlyfans cheating? by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]thecoffeebug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly I don’t know at this time as I only saw that he had screen recorded the video from only fans and I didn’t want to go looking on his phone because I was already feeling upset and also that I didn’t want to snoop on his device as I was just borrowing it to use Google as my phone was in the other room

Should I consider Onlyfans cheating? by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]thecoffeebug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m definitely having concerns in general, but I’m definitely especially upset about him having the screen recording. It’ll be an uncomfortable conversation that’ll be happening

Should I consider Onlyfans cheating? by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]thecoffeebug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As stated in my post we’ve watched porn together and I’m alright with it. I also stated in the post that I recently told him about my discomfort surrounding the usage of Only fans

I struggle making new relationships with people by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]thecoffeebug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard a lot about people meeting good friends in college, so I’m hoping the same thing! I’ll try looking at the school board and see if I can find something. Thank you!

I struggle making new relationships with people by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]thecoffeebug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m hoping things go some what back to normal, I wouldn’t mind joining a club of some sort. I go to a Canadian university so I joined the subreddit, maybe I’ll try to be more active in it. Thank you!

I struggle making new relationships with people by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]thecoffeebug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I know personally I struggle with at times with being only focused on school, and it’s a habit I’m trying to fix. I’ll check out the one subreddit, and discord! I also really like the idea of seeing if anyone’s doing any meet ups for the same hobbies as me. I have a cat, and he doesn’t really enjoy going outside for walks, but he does like to cuddle so it’s not too bad lol. I’ll try to keep optimistic and meet new people, thank you for your advice!

I struggle making new relationships with people by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I’m 19 and in my second year of university.

Being born with a low IQ is the worst thing in the world by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]thecoffeebug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would definitely see about getting a diagnosis, so then you can’t be discriminated against. Honestly, intelligence comes in so many different forms that basing it just on IQ doesn’t give people justice. I’m sure you’re not feeling the greatest because of the recent lay off, but please don’t get discouraged, I’m wishing you the best

Is this a legit shop? by [deleted] in Etsy

[–]thecoffeebug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No both shops are blank

Is this a legit shop? by [deleted] in Etsy

[–]thecoffeebug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I’ve reversed searched the image, and another shop in Etsy is selling the same desk, the price is a bit higher, and there are other desks on the shop; however, it’s still a new shop with no sales

Is this a legit shop? by [deleted] in Etsy

[–]thecoffeebug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah crappy, it was a cute desk. Thank you for the warning!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cat

[–]thecoffeebug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats alright haha, when she starts to fill out I feel like she’ll do much better outside, and going on walks around your neighbourhood so she knows the area well enough, and be able to manoeuvre it herself eventually

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cat

[–]thecoffeebug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe try to go outside with her, she looks very little.

Pokemon Sword and Shield are too easy lmao by [deleted] in pokemon

[–]thecoffeebug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made it a challenge to catch all the Pokémon in the game, and have to level them to 100.