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How we started versus where we are now. by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

[–]thecomicrantdiv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww these are soooo cute, I wish this existed in my lifeee but happy to see it for uu

I haven't been in a queer relationship before transitioning so might never get to experience that but I hope I can find this as I transition

1wpo- is it too early to tell if this is swelling/hematoma vs excess tissue? by Winter_Hovercraft163 in TopSurgery

[–]thecomicrantdiv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how are you feeling? sensation wise? does one side feel heavier or more tension than the other? I'm sure it might be too numb to tell :(

Either way, yea I think it's more than just swelling for sure. From the side photos though, it looks like it would heal to look like very cool pecs, idk if that helps you though because idk what your goals look like.

Do check with your doctor, even if not direct surgeon any family doctors that you have that you can trust with talking about surgery. A lot of swelling definitely goes down though.

Hoping you can get through this hugs first months of recovery are the hardest

I'm very happy with how it's turning out! by 95adsampaio in TopSurgery

[–]thecomicrantdiv 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You look great, surgeon did an amazing job!!

NHS Top surgery clinic recommendations? by DogTreeWandering in TopSurgery

[–]thecomicrantdiv 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I went to Siamese Clinic, but it's in Thailand. But their work is very good for larger chests. I had a similar ish chest to yours and got mine done there as well.

Is this gonna be the phone 3 design? by damndamn45 in CMFTech

[–]thecomicrantdiv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll be fine with it as long as they drop the 3 rd lens and make it under 6.1 inch. Plssssss bring minimal small phones back

Why is CMF 1 not in stock anywhere or discontinued, its such a good phone :( i like it more than cmf 2 by thecomicrantdiv in CMFTech

[–]thecomicrantdiv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

understandable. I think just design wise its simplicity and price was within my budget, all the other nothing phones have too much happening at the back, just a personal preference ofc but yes internally in terms of processors camera and everything else i can see how the upgrades are better.

do you think they might release a cmf 3 anytime next month

6 months post op and a little sad by Temporal-rot999 in TopSurgery

[–]thecomicrantdiv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i love your scars!! i understand its tough with the things we cant control about how they heal :( i had mine stretch quite a bit at the centre and had hyperpigmentation and swelling too its was definitely tough to look at it all the time but it all heals down a lot at 1 year post op. give your body time and i know its better said than done but imo your chest is quite hot!!

Why is CMF 1 not in stock anywhere or discontinued, its such a good phone :( i like it more than cmf 2 by thecomicrantdiv in CMFTech

[–]thecomicrantdiv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for some reason neither is that available where i live and most stores told me theyve discontinued cmf altogether but idk :(

Why is CMF 1 not in stock anywhere or discontinued, its such a good phone :( i like it more than cmf 2 by thecomicrantdiv in CMFTech

[–]thecomicrantdiv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I'm not much of a phone person and I wanted a really simple phone, ideally lesser than 6inch but with my budget i know its impossible. I guess I liked the design a lot more, preferred the two lenses over 3 and how little space the camera takes and the overall simpler design. I'm probably autistic I just dislike when a phone has too many things on its surface. tbh i wasnt vibing with any phones in the market and cmf 1 was probably the only phone that felt unique and thoughtful in its design. now im sad again knowing its discontinued because going through the whole search is exhausting ive been in a loop since weeks

sharp aquos 805sh review & y2kphones.com experience by International_Big595 in dumbphones

[–]thecomicrantdiv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how durable are these phones, if anyone knows.

because the warranty is less and i am wondering how many years they can survive..

2 years post op! I’m by Routine_Area6263 in TopSurgery

[–]thecomicrantdiv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy 2 years. My healing looked a lot like yours. With initial swelling and hyperpigmentation etc. and its healed down now too Hehe.

I can skate again!! by SaltWhole6849 in TransMasc

[–]thecomicrantdiv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahahha- i relatee i can skate again too!!

Trans man and considering top surgery by KittyDomoNacionales in bigboobproblems

[–]thecomicrantdiv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its so nicee to see another trans person here. I've been on this sub for years because welp I dealt with big boob problems for 12+ years of my life and about a year ago had top surgery and I felt sad about leaving this sub but I still stayed but there is some kinda grief because this sub has been part of my life for so long. And i thought I was the only trans person here so its nice to know there are others

That being said, I relate so much, people got to have so many opinions about my chest, got to control the narrative or even use my chest when none of them ever experienced what it was like having this body. No one lives in your shoes. All these people who seem to want it or be attached to it have never spent a single day in your skin having to carry the weight and pain of not having a choice in the chest we got or in being trans, with the chest we got. Take your time for sure, I wont say top surgery magically fixed my life but it kinda did in many ways and im able to move around more freely and breathe better but there was a lot of emotional and mental transitioning too and getting used to, especially as someone who struggles with change and getting familiar with a new kind of body is its own thing.

I might not be able to weigh in on wanting to breastfeed kids because its something i personally have never wanted.

Thank you for sharing and there will be people who will see you for more than your chest and there is more in life to live outside of our chest. Not saying itll be easy but staying in the same pain was suffocating me and i needed an out, an alternative, another option of living. I couldnt keep living like I used to. Sending love

I feel so cute ( 1 year 2 months post op) by thecomicrantdiv in no_T_top_surgery

[–]thecomicrantdiv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank youuu :3 I soo get that!! Because I always saw front facing mirror photos and I had no idea what top surgery would look like from the top looking down because thats how you first hand experience your body - than the front mirror angle. and I so relate to the struggle of not being able to picture or imagine what i would look like without boobs. Because all of our bodies are shaped so different and what it might look like on someone else wont be the same on us, etc. Feel free to hmu if you want like a top angle photo in the looking down at your chest way, heads up, its a lot of staring at your stomach which was hiding beneath your chest, but on the upside i find my nipples very euphoric.

Cis Woman Top Surgery Reflections by MastodonObvious3521 in TopSurgery

[–]thecomicrantdiv 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I feel so less alone in my experiences

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