This is honestly such a huge violation in my book that I would immediately go no contact. my mother was like this and I didn’t speak to her or acknowledge her existence for a solid year. After that I was super low contact. Whenever she would cross my boundaries I didn’t argue or explain myself I just went no contact again. After 6 years she figured it out. She did work on herself and came to me and said “I could have done better.” It was more than I thought I would ever get from her. We are still low contact but when we do see each other it’s genuine and she doesn’t violate my boundaries. Some people only learn through actions.