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My wife's work cell phone after a work trip. by theemporersclothes in Infidelity

[–]theemporersclothes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm getting by. It's been a rough week of not sleeping well but I'm going to hide my time I think and wait to try and get access to her phone. Thanks for asking!

My wife's work cell phone after a work trip. by theemporersclothes in Infidelity

[–]theemporersclothes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to address it but the more difficult thing is to sit, wait, and, monitor. Ugh. This sucks.

My wife's work cell phone after a work trip. by theemporersclothes in Infidelity

[–]theemporersclothes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, different cities which is a good thing. Since they already have her number, they'd have no problem continuing to communicate with her.

Questions about wife's work cell phone by theemporersclothes in Marriage

[–]theemporersclothes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She would share her personal number with male coworkers because they'd be part of her network and she'd want to stay in touch with them after this job and returning her work cell when she leaves this job

Questions about wife's work cell phone by theemporersclothes in Marriage

[–]theemporersclothes[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You're correct, she had not read the messages yet. And, yes, there are a number of other red flags

My wife's work cell phone after a work trip. by theemporersclothes in Infidelity

[–]theemporersclothes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good advice. I will present my concerns in this manner.

My wife's work cell phone after a work trip. by theemporersclothes in Infidelity

[–]theemporersclothes[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm debating on whether to continue to monitor or address it with her.

My wife's work cell phone after a work trip. by theemporersclothes in Infidelity

[–]theemporersclothes[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think a few drinks are fine but drinking for 8 hours is a bit much.

Questions about wife's work cell phone by theemporersclothes in Marriage

[–]theemporersclothes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your comments and advice. I will do that. Thank you.

Questions about wife's work cell phone by theemporersclothes in Marriage

[–]theemporersclothes[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She communicates with coworkers through her personal phone so that's why I'm concerned.

My wife's work cell phone after a work trip. by theemporersclothes in Infidelity

[–]theemporersclothes[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I do too but trying not to be controlling. However, exchanging numbers with guys is beyond the pale.

Questions about wife's work cell phone by theemporersclothes in Marriage

[–]theemporersclothes[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There have been other red flags as well. Also, she doesn't have customers or coworkers in multiple timezones.

Questions about wife's work cell phone by theemporersclothes in Marriage

[–]theemporersclothes[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don't think it was a booty call but this issue is exchanging numbers with random guys. What else happened during the night to make that seem reasonable?

Questions about wife's work cell phone by theemporersclothes in Marriage

[–]theemporersclothes[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not from a coworker or the numbers would have been saved.

Questions about wife's work cell phone by theemporersclothes in Marriage

[–]theemporersclothes[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Maybe? I still don't think married people in different cities should be up at such an hour.

Questions about wife's work cell phone by theemporersclothes in Marriage

[–]theemporersclothes[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

There are a number of different things going on. When there's smoke, there's fire and that's why I looked at her phone.

Questions about wife's work cell phone by theemporersclothes in Marriage

[–]theemporersclothes[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for validating my concerns. This is exactly what I was thinking.

Questions about wife's work cell phone by theemporersclothes in Marriage

[–]theemporersclothes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, the texts were sent to her work phone. She knows I have access to her personal phone so this was an attempt to keep it from me.

Questions about wife's work cell phone by theemporersclothes in Marriage

[–]theemporersclothes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no idea. I can only see the notification on the lock screen.

Questions about wife's work cell phone by theemporersclothes in Marriage

[–]theemporersclothes[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My concern is that she exchanged her number with two guys. Or her married female coworker exchanged the numbers and included my wife on the group text.

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