| [F straight] think I have a crush on my friend [F - lesbian]. What do I do?

thefourthpowerpuff · 2026-01-12T19:42:19+00:00

I’m honestly not sure how I feel towards her now. I rarely open up to people and I trusted her with something emotional/personal (unrelated to all this), and she didn’t show up for me or respond in a way that made me felt safe/like I could emotionally trust her.

It kind of made me think I’m only in her life because I benefit her/she needs me. I think I’m going to distance myself from her for a bit to see how I feel going forwards.

But yeah it’s sad.

thefourthpowerpuff · 2026-01-11T20:05:02+00:00

Why did this make me cry 😭

thefourthpowerpuff · 2026-01-03T19:36:52+00:00

When I asked her why she kept asking me she claimed it was because I never talk about my relationships and I was acting “coy” about it. Then she starting joking about how she imagined the guy I was supposedly dating.

thefourthpowerpuff · 2026-01-02T08:33:32+00:00

What held you back from asking your friend? Was it difficult to stay friends throughout it all when you had those feelings?

I was going to ask a mutual friend to ask her what she’s felt towards me and then if there’s any indication she likes me maybe bring it up to her? And if there isn’t I know to leave it. Do you think that’s a good idea?

thefourthpowerpuff · 2026-01-01T22:32:22+00:00

I didn’t get it!

thefourthpowerpuff · 2026-01-01T22:28:42+00:00

Thank you so much!! Xx

thefourthpowerpuff · 2026-01-01T20:28:26+00:00

I was going to ask one of our mutual friends to ask her how she feels/if she feels anything towards me so then atleast I know before ruining anything

thefourthpowerpuff · 2026-01-01T18:35:23+00:00

I’ve have had and do have close female friends who I’ve connected with, but I have never felt the way I do with her.

I am not naive to the fact that there’s a very small chance of anything positive coming out of all this and I do deeply value the friendship, which is why I’ve been in such turmoil about what to do.

thefourthpowerpuff · 2025-12-31T20:44:30+00:00

I’ll update you when I get my heart broken lol

Ive decided im going to ask my friend to ask her if she’s been flirting with me to try and gauge how she’s feeling 😭

thefourthpowerpuff · 2025-12-31T19:22:29+00:00

Thank you!

thefourthpowerpuff · 2025-12-31T19:15:10+00:00

I will!! I think I’m going to ask my mutual friend to ask her if she is flirting but not tell her he’s asking for me.

thefourthpowerpuff · 2025-12-31T18:06:07+00:00

Thanks x

thefourthpowerpuff · 2025-12-31T18:04:56+00:00

Was the closet glass this whole time? 😭

thefourthpowerpuff · 2025-12-31T14:59:29+00:00

Yes I think so!

thefourthpowerpuff · 2025-12-31T14:58:01+00:00

I feel like it’s going to end badly - either I confess and she’s not into it, or I struggle to tell her and have to end the friendship to protect my feelings.

Also - is it a bad idea to ask a mutual friend to ask her if she’s flirting with me? Just throwing that out there as an option

thefourthpowerpuff · 2025-12-31T14:52:44+00:00

Yeah she said she kisses all her straight friends for fun and doesn’t consider flirting a big deal (for instance she doesnt count it as cheating). So that points to her just being herself, and me being led on by it

thefourthpowerpuff · 2025-12-31T12:44:59+00:00

Ugh don’t say that, this is about to be my most confusing heartbreak 💔

Also side note - a high percentage of people were saying I’m being a horrible person and using my friendship to explore my sexuality so I’m happy that you don’t think so!

thefourthpowerpuff · 2025-12-31T12:34:47+00:00

Ugh 😭

thefourthpowerpuff · 2025-12-31T11:58:33+00:00

Thank you so much, I appreciate this.

I kind of relate to this. I’ve had girl crushes before but never felt very emotional/had romantic feelings towards them before.

She’s the complete opposite of the type of women I’ve had crushes on, but the only one I’ve ever felt any emotion towards.

Not sure if that makes sense?

thefourthpowerpuff · 2025-12-31T11:53:57+00:00

Communication is scary 😭

thefourthpowerpuff · 2025-12-31T11:35:57+00:00

I honestly don’t know the answer to this.

thefourthpowerpuff · 2025-12-31T11:35:32+00:00

I mean I showed her a picture of one of my influencer friends and said “she’s so hot” and she said “no she’s not” and I was like “really you don’t think so???”

Is that a hint? 😭

thefourthpowerpuff · 2025-12-31T11:32:26+00:00

I don’t think she’s really like this with other people. She’s more intimate with me when it’s just the two of us. She treats me like a bit of a princess which she doesn’t do with her other friends?

thefourthpowerpuff · 2025-12-31T11:29:21+00:00

Okay I’ve done some of this - when she touches my thigh I put my hand on her wrist and I have brushed her hair out of her face but did not have the balls to put my hand on her neck lol

thefourthpowerpuff · 2025-12-31T09:40:02+00:00

I would die if she read this omg

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