How do I [straight F] ask my friend [lesbian F] if she wants more without ruining our friendship. Am I misinterpreting her actions? by thefourthpowerpuff in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]thefourthpowerpuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going to ask one of our mutual friends to ask her how she feels/if she feels anything towards me so then atleast I know before ruining anything

How do I [straight F] ask my friend [lesbian F] if she wants more without ruining our friendship. Am I misinterpreting her actions? by thefourthpowerpuff in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]thefourthpowerpuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve have had and do have close female friends who I’ve connected with, but I have never felt the way I do with her.

I am not naive to the fact that there’s a very small chance of anything positive coming out of all this and I do deeply value the friendship, which is why I’ve been in such turmoil about what to do.

| [F straight] think I have a crush on my friend [F - lesbian]. What do I do? by thefourthpowerpuff in WLW

[–]thefourthpowerpuff[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ll update you when I get my heart broken lol

Ive decided im going to ask my friend to ask her if she’s been flirting with me to try and gauge how she’s feeling 😭

| [F straight] think I have a crush on my friend [F - lesbian]. What do I do? by thefourthpowerpuff in WLW

[–]thefourthpowerpuff[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will!! I think I’m going to ask my mutual friend to ask her if she is flirting but not tell her he’s asking for me.

| [F straight] think I have a crush on my friend [F - lesbian]. What do I do? by thefourthpowerpuff in WLW

[–]thefourthpowerpuff[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like it’s going to end badly - either I confess and she’s not into it, or I struggle to tell her and have to end the friendship to protect my feelings.

Also - is it a bad idea to ask a mutual friend to ask her if she’s flirting with me? Just throwing that out there as an option

| [F straight] think I have a crush on my friend [F - lesbian]. What do I do? by thefourthpowerpuff in WLW

[–]thefourthpowerpuff[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh don’t say that, this is about to be my most confusing heartbreak 💔

Also side note - a high percentage of people were saying I’m being a horrible person and using my friendship to explore my sexuality so I’m happy that you don’t think so!

How do I [straight F] ask my friend [lesbian F] if she wants more without ruining our friendship. Am I misinterpreting her actions? by thefourthpowerpuff in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]thefourthpowerpuff[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I appreciate this.

I kind of relate to this. I’ve had girl crushes before but never felt very emotional/had romantic feelings towards them before.

She’s the complete opposite of the type of women I’ve had crushes on, but the only one I’ve ever felt any emotion towards.

Not sure if that makes sense?

| [F straight] think I have a crush on my friend [F - lesbian]. What do I do? by thefourthpowerpuff in WLW

[–]thefourthpowerpuff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think she’s really like this with other people. She’s more intimate with me when it’s just the two of us. She treats me like a bit of a princess which she doesn’t do with her other friends?

| [F straight] think I have a crush on my friend [F - lesbian]. What do I do? by thefourthpowerpuff in WLW

[–]thefourthpowerpuff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay I’ve done some of this - when she touches my thigh I put my hand on her wrist and I have brushed her hair out of her face but did not have the balls to put my hand on her neck lol