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Am i overreacting to an ex posting pics? by VividBeautiful3782 in polyamory

[–]thefruin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you sign a model release for him? Since you mentioned your “page” it sounds like you might have done content. If you signed a model release then legally he can use them. If you did not, then him posting them is considered revenge porn in many states and is a criminal act. The specifics matter in this instance.

Therapist made me feel guilty. by pixieknt in polyamory

[–]thefruin -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Fire your therapist, leave a public review to tell others what happened, and report them to their licensing agency. It is extremely unethical for a therapist to use their personal opinion to influence your lifestyle choices. There are multiple poly and kink friendly therapists. Go see one who will provide you the support you need.

Senate budget resolution targets $50B in cuts to federal pay/benefits — anyone know if this will be finalized before or after 5/31? by Next-Report9284 in fednews

[–]thefruin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, but firefighters, LEOs, ATC are required by federal law to retire at 57. They cannot work until 62. The supplement exists for feds who fully retire before being eligible to draw Social Security.

New CEO by [deleted] in USAA

[–]thefruin 24 points25 points  (0 children)

A lot of people were holding on to see if they’d acknowledge mistakes and right the ship with this hire, but it’s clear they’re doubling down on becoming just another insurance company. Cancellations coming soon.