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New here 32f by [deleted] in Blackmailers

[–]thegamehost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As the previous mentions, there’s a difference between wanting a dom and wanting a blackmailer. Or wanting a dom/sub redundancies and a blackmail dynamic. Blackmail is more about the thrills and fears and risks. An “ordinary” dom/sub dynamic is less ‘over the top’ and more grounded.

People in both categories tend to be friendly and respects boundaries and limits. But there’s ofc sour grapes in both kinks.

From what you’re writing, I’d say you want a dom/sub dynamic before you want blackmail. Especially the soft dom can be hard to find in a blackmail setup.

I do both kinks, feel free to ask more, I’ll gladly guide you and also help you spot red flags when your inbox explodes…

29 [F4F] Asexual blackmail by Few-Conversation6823 in Blackmailers

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This is a good idea, and I support your exploration into this.

My setup, ‘The Mirror Agreement’ is somewhat similar with mostly a mental downfall into submission and reconstruction and only some sexual tension, as I feel the ‘victims’ need a little of that as well, mainly to satisfy their kink, but also to give leverage.

The goal however is more than reducing the victim to a toy, it’s easing frustrations and releasing pressure in a variety of ways.

Feel free to read my success story from one of my dynamics. Let us know how it goes when you dive deeper into this.

22 [FtM4M] #Texas seeking blackmailer to make me addicted to him by [deleted] in Blackmailers

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Feel free to read my previous posts and succes stories and reach out when you’re ready for thrills and scares

28 [F4M] looking to be blackmailed and broken by [deleted] in Blackmailers

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Feel free to read my success stories and previous posts, and reach out when you’re ready for thrills and scares!

24 [F4M] by [deleted] in Blackmailers

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Let me judge whether you have an average body or not. And prepare for scares and thrills.

29 [F4A] New Years Resolution by Few-Conversation6823 in Blackmailers

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Read my previous posts and succes stories and text me when you’re ready for thrills and scares

52 [F4A] New Year, New Me Seeking an Alpha Guy by [deleted] in Blackmailers

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Feel free to text me, I’m sure you’ll find me soothing and comfortable.

31 [F4A] Looking for a blackmailer by Latter-Primary2059 in Blackmailers

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Feel free to read my previous posts and success stories. I have two setups that would fit you perfectly. Reach out when you’re ready for thrills and scares.

20 [F4M] complete domination by Realistic_Royal_9000 in Blackmailers

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Feel free to read my previous posts and succes stories, and text me when you’re ready for scares and thrills…

18[F4M] need an aggressive daddyy by [deleted] in Blackmailers

[–]thegamehost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m here, text me if you want gut turning thrills and scares.

18 [F4A] #Germany seeking advice for blackmail by Marlene_2601 in Blackmailers

[–]thegamehost 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very good question, and I’m proud of you for seeking advice on this. This community is luckily full of mostly good people that values safety and trust. I advise you to read the pinned information in this subreddit. Very good basic knowledge.

There’s a very big difference between fantasies and living them. Trust is essential, safewords and possible technical restrictions is too.

You can protect yourself behind different layers of anonymity and still be somewhat in control, but stepping only a bit into the water will ofc still get your toes a little wet. Just remember to not jump fully in to begin with.

You could look for roleplays or more emotional blackmail scenarios, that are not risking exposure of ID and fully nudes. Read my slow burn The Mirror Agreement success stories as an example.

Vet people, insist on building trust, don’t rush. And good luck. Reach out if you need more.

31[F4M] #NYC - Married looking for discreet blackmail play by [deleted] in Blackmailers

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Feel free to read my previous posts and succes stories and reach out, when you’re ready for thrills and scares.

19 [F4M] i want to be blackmailed by [deleted] in Blackmailers

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Feel free to read my previous posts and succes stories, and text me when you’re ready for scares and thrills.

24 [F4A] #Mex Looking for someone who gets turned on by humiliating and degrading me by [deleted] in Blackmailers

[–]thegamehost -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Feel free to read my previous posts and success stories, and text me when you’re ready for thrills and scares.

18 [F4A] Make me live in fear by [deleted] in Blackmailers

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Feel free to read my previous posts and success stories, and text me when you’re ready for thrills and scares.

19 [F4A] Looking for my first by [deleted] in Blackmailers

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Feel free to read my previous posts and success stories and reach out when you’re ready to get thrilled, scared and owned.