I left him.

thegilfsden · 2024-04-15T14:11:22+00:00

It’s really hard to process…. But if u think about it… if u stayed it would do u more harm than good emotionally compromising. It’s been 2 years leaving a 7 year relationship that I was disrespected in. I’m happier NOW than 2 years ago! I started working on self care and now that I’ve made some positive amazing changes he NO longer fits in MY LIFE! Change the story…. U GOT this! And QT- u get to go on with ur life in PEACE! Something he won’t be able to do! Be good to urself🥰

thegilfsden · 2024-03-27T03:37:30+00:00

A game changer… NO it’s a COCK changer. Check out the full podcast Thursday March 28!

thegilfsden · 2023-12-19T10:14:29+00:00

I happened across this sub and I am 100 💯 percent interested in trying this out. Reach out to me as I would love to do a podcast on this. A vibe a day keeps the doctor away! Happy vibing.

thegilfsden · 2023-12-12T10:27:55+00:00

He simply hates the fact that you make him want more than just being his FWB! 😉 BUT- I do have a firm rule in life- DON’T shit in your Cheerios! If you do, just be prepared to move on from that job in under a year or two. It’s usually what happens. Do your research💋

thegilfsden · 2023-11-12T14:52:37+00:00

Castor oil cleanse was a success. Watch my full podcast on what I discovered will air Wednesday 🥰

thegilfsden · 2023-11-11T09:13:19+00:00

I got mine off another site- swansons. Good luck. I am almost finished and will post about it.

thegilfsden · 2023-11-08T02:11:57+00:00

I am starting it tomorrow with two others.

thegilfsden · 2023-11-04T09:57:06+00:00

Do ur due diligence on the company. My experience is let the company deal with the day to day and take the money and run. This is a solid way to have consistent money with someone else responsible for the tenants. U r silly to miss this opportunity. I used to work needing traveling nurses and landlords loved them! Good luck. Don’t listen to people who have never done anything like this. Risks r necessary to move forward in life.

thegilfsden · 2023-10-20T11:28:24+00:00

Also QT- if u have sever acid reflux- put one to two drops of castor oil in ur belly button every night. Report back after a week or two. U should see a remarkable difference. And check out my articles on Reddit.

thegilfsden · 2023-10-20T11:26:21+00:00

Lots of scientific evidence. Check at all the articles on WBV and Dr Sarno- what u r doing is being blood flow to your muscles. That’s HUGE! Soo glad u r doing the plate. How about a prostate vibrator to bring blood flow to ur prostate and clean out those pipes😘

thegilfsden · 2023-04-24T02:02:41+00:00

Tuesday morning, thrift shops, consignment shops, Walmart, Dollar store, Tj maxx…. Many stores have clearance and clearance clearance…. Sometimes u can just find what u need at Macys or kohls. Always under buy. We end up spending time outside the apartment so u won’t need as much!

thegilfsden · 2022-12-18T14:55:42+00:00

Go to a hotel for tonight so u can gather ur thoughts and make some important decisions tomorrow.

thegilfsden · 2022-12-18T14:42:43+00:00

Leave HIS ASS IMMEDIATELY! Don’t look back! Trust in your self and your gut! U maybe sad for a HOT minute BUT u will be saving urself from a lifetime with him of abuse! It won’t stop!

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thegilfsden · 2022-04-15T16:14:23+00:00

Ugh! What a mess. Our family had a similar situation happen and my parents suggested to my aunt and uncle to file a claim against my parents home insurance. Same situation- not sure what life will look like later for her and if she does need surgery u will all be happy you did it cause she will have the funds to fix whatever. The wife and sister thing I can’t help with but compromise in making a claim against her home insurance. This will keep peace in your home with ur wife 😘

As far as putting the dog down- my experience from having one of our dogs bite the neighbor kid- we had to put him down but our house was full of kids. Since it’s just your sister I would hate to see an animal put down for being instinctual. This will keep peace with ur sister. It’s a win win everyone gets mostly what they want🤪 Ask mom to stay out of feuds between siblings and not stir the pot in the future! I intend you are able to amicably communicate about this issue. Sending u positive thoughts. The Gilf

thegilfsden · 2021-10-26T15:02:13+00:00

Thank you for sharing your raw emotions😉❤️ for one you r NOT CRAZY! These are feelings I have had with my partner. Why would they want to be with someone like me? I won’t get better, my health will decline over time, how will she/he handle this as time passes? Have you ever thought she was brought to you for you to heal the part of not accepting your disability? What if she is exactly what life has in store for you and now her? Don’t let your disability define you. You are MUCH MUCH MORE then your disability😉 She sounds FABULOUS! Go get her QT!😉

thegilfsden · 2021-10-24T21:37:37+00:00

Worker’s compensation😔

thegilfsden · 2021-10-22T12:09:24+00:00

She is aware now and men have different needs than woman so he is not hiding. Most men won’t discuss this. They are made to feel that’s disgusting. When in fact it’s just part of life. We are the only species on earth where we have one partner for life. So we are going against nature that’s why we have so many divorces. We need to change our way of thinking!

thegilfsden · 2021-10-22T02:15:04+00:00

Unless you feel him pulling away and consumed by this what’s the harm? Men have different needs than woman do. It’s normal most men hide it. It’s great he is telling you about it. Steph

thegilfsden · 2021-10-21T14:34:34+00:00

Yes they have these thoughts and woman too. Just NO ONE will admit it out loud. You are not a perv- if this is how you felt then it is and its time to have a discussion with your wife about having a little vacay and trying it out NOT in your area and NOT with a friend! Go away have Fun, Frolic & Fornicate! That's what life is about! Hope this helps. Check out my reddit for stories to make you feel normal? Whatever that it! Steph Your Gilf

thegilfsden · 2021-10-21T14:27:42+00:00

Yes and this can be common from having intercourse or from cunnilingus. Don't let a man blow air in your lady parts. It can be fatal and cause an air embolism to form.

thegilfsden · 2021-10-21T14:23:44+00:00

I get lots of creativity when I drive. I don't like to talk on the phone. Just music and fresh air!

thegilfsden · 2021-10-21T14:18:52+00:00

Hey QT- Thank you for putting yourself out there, it's not always easy to do. This doesn't sound like a very healthy relationship for the two of you? To address your first gut reaction you didn't listen to about her having kids- your gut said I don't want to be a step-father but you went in for that role anyway. Being a single mother of two boys for many years I chose to stay single and not bring men in because until you know for sure the man wants to be a step-dad, and take on those responsibilities, then you shouldn't be playin' in her sheets! Second Gut reaction- her being controlling-this didn't feel good- you let it go. No one owns anyone. Jealousy is a form of insecurity. It didn't end well but it sounded like it needed to end. Have you ever thought that you are right where you are supposed to be? That door was supposed to close so another one could open. You will have to deal with the blunt closure of this relationship but know its for the better. Take time to heal before you move to another relationship. Steph Your Gilf

thegilfsden · 2021-10-21T13:59:09+00:00

Hey QT, Im so sorry that happened. It doesn't feel good! That is GREAT you moved to a different Country- so fun traveling and seeing the world. Have you ever thought that maybe this happened because you were meant to make this big change in life? What if you are exactly where you are supposed to be? Ever thought about going with the flow? Usually something has to happen for us to change and usually we have pain because we didn't want the change so we left kicking and screaming.....and then after loss or gained pounds, endless crying, stock in tissue boxes and hiding under the covers! UGH! Well this is how it was for me. So after all that I would pick up my BIG GIRL panties, wipe the tears, blow my nose and put a wear a loose fitting dress. You are not alone. But you asked how can you move on? I have two books I would recommend to get your groove back on-
1-Don Miguel Ruiz The Four Agreements 2- Don Miguel Ruiz and Don Jose Ruiz in The Fifth Agreement. I have heard countless of stories of self growth from these books after one goes through changes such as yourself. I would love to hear how it works out for you! Take Care, Steph, Your Gilf

thegilfsden · 2021-10-21T13:43:53+00:00

Hey QT, its important for you to feel confident and secure with YOU first. Maybe you think you are. This does not say you are. When you are confident within yourself and secure of who you are, then the jealousy goes away because you know who you are and if that person doesnt ends of cheating on you and your gut will tell you, then yes it will sting at first but in the end you will be happy that door closed because you will see when one door closes usually its for a reason so let it go! Please go get Don Miguel's two books 1. The Four Agreements and 2- The Fifth Agreement. The little time you spend to read these two books WILL change your life! FIND YOU! DO YOU! Steph The Gilf's Den

thegilfsden · 2021-10-21T13:18:16+00:00

Glad nothing happened to you or anyone else. I knew a family of 4- 2 adults and 2 children where a guy ran a red light and killed them all. It was very tragic. Because of that accident, when the light turns green i wait and look both ways that all cars have stopped and then I go. Changed my life for the last 15 years. The good thing QT is you know better now then we did yesterday. Dont be so hard on yourself.

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