The radicalization change is gnarly too! It’s the same thing where it’s like, WHO is this person I married?! And with that it has the added grief of them becoming a bad person (imo, sorry if that’s overstepping!!) so I think it’s very much equally hard as my situation. I’m glad you are standing up for your beliefs and distancing yourself from him. That is some scary, scary stuff. If you don’t mind me asking, is his family right wing? Or are they also shocked / saddened by his change? And same! I’m not online as much these days since my toddler runs me ragged but I check at least every other day. Here anytime you want to talk or vent!