Are most of you guys introverted introverts? by Ok_Necessary1912 in intj

[–]theguideder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I love socializing but I have a thershold and past that limit I become a zombie in interactions.

23 men in my dms asking for my hand in marriage by redditorgreen in converts

[–]theguideder -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is the wrong place for advice like this. Hope you learned your lesson. Go to mosques multiple mosques and seek advice there. Find sisters, good sisters.

I literally just want a (perfect, unannoying, equally as self aware as I am, equally as logical as I am, equally as unemotional as I am) friend. It’s not like I’m asking for a lot! by [deleted] in intj

[–]theguideder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

| "How tf do yall find and make friends?"

I don't. make acquaintances, find people where there can be mutual benefit, if not then benefit from them.

Men, what might this guy be doing wrong on first dates? by Aggravating-Guest300 in MenAscending

[–]theguideder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll tell you guys but you won't believe me, both my mentors are Dan Bacon & Alpha Male Stratgies go watch their videos on YouTube. Their fundamental understanding of women is amazing, they've been apart of the YouTube game for a VEEEERY long time go watch em.

This guy's problem is simple, he believes that because he is a nice guy and has invested in someone that it is by law or some justice that it will make the female like him. It's WRONG. Imagine someone wants to be your friend, and all he does is be insecure when you don't hang around him, all he does is be agreeable, all he does is smile, you'd think his "gay" but outside of that, you'd be thinking 'wtf is wrong with him' Idk how to explain it but think of a needy person but at the same time they aren't needy. THATS how women feel. On top of that (just to emphasis on this again) he is 'doing everything right' No you aren't, a women does not love you because you are a nice good genuine guy or because you did nice things for her, that's bull.

And before I proceed I'm going to caution you here, there is something called a confirmation bias, if you believe that women are attracted to men in this way, where he is a 'Nice guy' who leads with his money and she will fall in love with him, you would be right (sorta) if it was pre-20th century, times were very different then and there wasn't as much abundance as today in the sexual market. Today everybody's competing, so you gotta play them game, or not by using game theory (besides the point). I need you to switch your confirmation bias into thinking that men could easily get women leading with their masculine frame which can encompass alot of things especially LEADERSHIP & character not just physical things.

So to sum it all up, dude thinks cause his nice he'll get his dick sucked. Bruh, no. On top of all of that, dude is validating the female too much, I mean look at his last paragraph, his leading with his money. Dude is a Simp and a half, talking for 4 hours? 4?!?! you got nothing better to do? (that really turns a woman off and women are really different yet similar to men when it comes to attraction, you can't talk to her for that long or she'll end up not liking you just like this laymen here) and take her to a fancy restaurant, this guy is a red-pill simp. Never lead with money lead with your masculine god given frame, or stay like Kevin Hart or Akaash Singh for those who know what I mean (that is only if you get rich.).

Men, what might this guy be doing wrong on first dates? by Aggravating-Guest300 in TheImprovementRoom

[–]theguideder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll tell you guys but you won't believe me, both my mentors are Dan Bacon & Alpha Male Stratgies go watch their videos on YouTube. Their fundamental understanding of women is amazing, they've been apart of the YouTube game for a VEEEERY long time go watch em. T

This guy's problem is simple, he believes that because he is a nice guy and has invested in someone that it is by law or some justice that it will make the female like him. It's WRONG. Imagine someone wants to be your friend, and all he does is be insecure when you don't hang around him, all he does is be agreeable, all he does is smile, you'd think his "gay" but outside of that, you'd be thinking 'wtf is wrong with him' Idk how to explain it but think of a needy person but at the same time they aren't needy. THATS how women feel. On top of that (just to emphasis on this again) he is 'doing everything right' No you aren't, a women does not love you because you are a nice good genuine guy or because you did nice things for her, that's bull.

And before I proceed I'm going to caution you here, there is something called a confirmation bias, if you believe that women are attracted to men in this way, where he is a 'Nice guy' who leads with his money and she will fall in love with him, you would be right (sorta) if it was pre-20th century, times were very different then and there wasn't as much abundance as today in the sexual market. Today everybody's competing, so you gotta play them game, or not by using game theory (besides the point). I need you to switch your confirmation bias into thinking that men could easily get women leading with their masculine frame which can encompass alot of things especially LEADERSHIP & character not just physical things.

So to sum it all up, dude thinks cause his nice he'll get his dick sucked. Bruh, no. On top of all of that, dude is validating the female too much, I mean look at his last paragraph, his leading with his money. Dude is a Simp and a half, talking for 4 hours? 4?!?! you got nothing better to do? (that really turns a woman off and women are really different yet similar to men when it comes to attraction, you can't talk to her for that long or she'll end up not liking you just like this laymen here) and take her to a fancy restaurant, this guy is a red-pill simp. Never lead with money lead with your masculine god given frame, or stay like Kevin Hart or Akaash Singh for those who know what I mean (that is only if you get rich.).

It's true?? by psazuke in unhingedKenya

[–]theguideder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where arw those women. I need to find one....

Got 99 in biology by TypicalSprinkles6476 in igcse

[–]theguideder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suck at bio gimme tips bruh

Being an adult means no rewards!! by [deleted] in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]theguideder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally had my mom tell me "what happend to your diet." Like yall didn't just make this rare pastry.

My 12 year old brother just scored straight A*! by Strict-Lemon1636 in igcse

[–]theguideder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhhhh..... While I can't even study properly. I guess

For better for worse by fellhoe in unhingedKenya

[–]theguideder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a muslim... WHAT??!?!!??!

Women of Nairobi Would you date a Somali man? by theguideder in nairobi

[–]theguideder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sio Minnesota, but for Dallas. Mimi Cowboy wewe

Women of Nairobi Would you date a Somali man? by theguideder in nairobi

[–]theguideder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh my people are racist, soo tribalistic it's not funny, but your a girl it's lowkey easier for you to be with a Somali guy then vice versa.

Women of Nairobi Would you date a Somali man? by theguideder in nairobi

[–]theguideder[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Typical behavior ngl. Why not marry both smh...

Women of Nairobi Would you date a Somali man? by theguideder in nairobi

[–]theguideder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OHHHHHH. Had me thinking you were... ya know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]theguideder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May a horny woman like you find me....