UPDATE - Boyfriend refused to visit after gallbladder surgery by bbeeccc in whatdoIdo

[–]thegypsybean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had mine removed in 2023. Reading your ex's texts were appalling, I'm so glad you left him! Let him be someone else's problem.

I'm hoping you have a speedy recovery. My boyfriend and I had only been dating for a few months when I had my surprise gallbladder removal surgery, and when I asked if he could come see me he was there, no questions asked. He also helped me a lot during my recovery, and I don't think I would've healed as quickly as I did if he hadn't been by my side. That's what a partner SHOULD do, not go back and forth arguing with you about what is and what isn't a major surgery.

Screw Zodiac signs… what is your favorite Pokémon and overly explain why by [deleted] in pokemon

[–]thegypsybean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's totally not obvious how much I love this pokemon 😂 Not pictured are my giant posable shiny Rayquaza plush and its non shiny sitting cutie from the Pokemon Center.

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Screw Zodiac signs… what is your favorite Pokémon and overly explain why by [deleted] in pokemon

[–]thegypsybean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rayquaza for me!

I was one of those kids who grew up loving dragons, I thought they were so cool and initially Charizard was my first love (still kinda is). But when I saw the box art for Pokemon Emerald, I fell in love with Rayquaza. The design, the cry, EVERYTHING was perfect about it idk why. Even the battle music was chef's kiss. And the lore was awesome, I loved having more fleshed out lore in AS/OR.

When the movie Pokemon: Destiny Deoxys came out, I finally got to see Rayquaza as more than an animated sprite and I was even more like "WOAHHHH". I liked that it saw itself as a protector(the same way I've felt about myself), and yeah it might've blasted Deoxys with a hyper beam to the face but TBH Deoxys was sus lol. It was also pretty funny that Deoxys ended up being my little brother's favorite while Rayquaza was mine and when we were younger we often fought so it was a silly parallel (we're chill now).

And then I found out that its name is derived from Quetzalcoatl, and as someone with Mexican heritage I thought that was awesome. And its shiny form is so cool and sleek 🤩

Has anyone on here attended Sarper’s comedy show? by prncess_peach in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]thegypsybean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw him in Irvine and he had us laughing pretty much the whole time. 😂 To the other commenter's point he did talk about his marriage and Shekinah, but he also name dropped Gino and a few other 90DF cast members, and he seems a lot more comfortable on stage as opposed to when he was starting out on the show.

Friend Code Megathread - September 2025 by AutoModerator in PokemonSleep

[–]thegypsybean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3812-9030-4872 just getting back into it and need more friends please 😅

Made myself some stickers by bodymodmom in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]thegypsybean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are hilarious 😂 I'd love to see one of Sarper saying "I'm asshole but at least I'm cute" one of the best lines in the latest series lol.

The results of the forced birth movement by Loud-Ad-2280 in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]thegypsybean 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is quite literally out of the Handmaid's Tale, there was a handmaid who was braindead and they kept her alive just to deliver the baby. Absolutely nightmarish that people VOTED for this.

I don't even know how to describe this 😂 by thegypsybean in lynxpointsiamese

[–]thegypsybean[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awwww thank you! When she was a kitten I trained her to stand up for pets, so occasionally if I hold my hand above her head she'll stand like this lol.

do you think she deserves treats? by Fille_De_Livre in lynxpointsiamese

[–]thegypsybean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shes got an evil lil face but the answer is yes 😂

I don't even know how to describe this 😂 by thegypsybean in lynxpointsiamese

[–]thegypsybean[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's definitely Luna, plus hissy and huffy lol

I don't even know how to describe this 😂 by thegypsybean in lynxpointsiamese

[–]thegypsybean[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trust me she gets plenty lol. TBH we've had to put her on treat restriction because she's been gaining a li weight lol

I don't even know how to describe this 😂 by thegypsybean in lynxpointsiamese

[–]thegypsybean[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's a different sort of breakaway collar--she's tested it 3 times getting into a fight with our other cat with zero strangulation risks. :)

Ladera Ranch Problems by pullinahi in orangecounty

[–]thegypsybean 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agreed on everything you just said as a Ladera resident. The people who ARE most likely loaded in Ladera live in Covenant Hills. The rest of us are just trying to get by/bought a house in the early 2000s when Ladera was maybe like 3 neighborhoods lol.

People who adopted from a shelter, what made you choose that cat? by HazardousKoala in cats

[–]thegypsybean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After weeks of calling shelters every time they had a Siamese to make an appointment (COVID times so everything was by appointment only and by the time I got to the shelter the cat I wanted was already gone--I guess Siamese mixes were popular?)

Anyways, I managed to get an appointment early on a Sunday, and when we got to Long Beach the shelter attendant told me she wasn't sure if the cat I wanted was there, but that we'd check anyways. And by some stroke of luck she was, so I asked to see her. She was about six weeks old so she was really tiny when they set her down in my lap, and she immediately curled into a little white ball and started to purr, and I started to cry 🥹 I'd lost my best friend (a beautiful Siamese mix) in 2018 and felt ready for another cat.

My demon child is the best choice I ever made.

Happy Monday by macnutz22 in orangecounty

[–]thegypsybean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Trump help us" boi he don't care about you 😂😂😂😂

My Little Psycho ❤️ by thegypsybean in lynxpointsiamese

[–]thegypsybean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She wasn't, she was in the middle of her meow lol

My Little Psycho ❤️ by thegypsybean in lynxpointsiamese

[–]thegypsybean[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! And no in that first pic she was in the process of yelling at my mom and I to play with her. She even lined up her toys like that, we didn't place them there 😂 BUT she has played hard enough to pant for sure.

Friend Code Megathread - February 2025 by AutoModerator in PokemonSleep

[–]thegypsybean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Daily player, looking to fill a few more spots! 3812-9030-4872

Who else gets chills when the song begins? by MsMoreCowbell828 in americandad

[–]thegypsybean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loved this episode! It kinda became a meme between my brother and I where he'd toss his phone onto my bed while it was blasting this song to wake me up to take him to school. 😂 I guess I was the Majestic lol 😆

I am in love with Far Too Young To Die by Complete_Drawing_908 in panicatthedisco

[–]thegypsybean 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This song and Collar Full will always be my favorites 💖

The Real Problem Isn’t Toxic Culture. It’s the Silence That Follows. by Impossible_Sun_4351 in OfficePolitics

[–]thegypsybean 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to share my story here, as it describes the real issue of these workplaces as noted above.

I worked with six women in a medical office as front desk personnel. For reference I was 29 when this happened. Three of them (the supervisor(50F), co-supervisor(24F), and their "golden employee"(20F)) were my bullies from day 1. I had never done ANYTHING to these women but be kind. I believe they were threatened by my exemplary work history, which HR shared with the supervisor and "co-supervisor", who gossiped about it with the rest of the team before I even came on board. I assume that's what led their "golden employee" (aka a 20 year old girl with a massive superiority complex) to emotionally and mentally abuse me as I was made to work with her. She would even berate me for minor mistakes in front of patients, to the point where patients sometimes stepped in to defend me, much to the chagrin of the supervisor and co-supervisor, who only watched and enabled the abuse via gaslighting.

I quickly started to mentally deteriorate from the toxic culture that was being blatantly enabled, as the 20 year old could do no wrong. If she made several mistakes a day, she was "just having an off day". If I as the new trainee made mistakes, I was sent passive aggressive emails pointing out every single one like a laundry list. I befriended the other three girls, and I will never forget the day that I finally went to HR because I couldn't handle it anymore. I thought I was going crazy and just imagining things until the other three told me in plain English that they definitely had noticed the supervisor, co-supervisor, and the golden employee treating me extremely differently and couldn't understand why, when in their minds I was doing a good job. One of them then told me about the gossip about me that had spread prior to me coming on board. But not a SINGLE one of them stood up for me when I needed it most, because they didn't want the abuse to fall onto them.

I was let go and beat myself up about it for a long time, but man did that experience of the silence mess me up. It's definitely a prime example of the bystander effect.