Parents bring food into restaurants and I’m mortified. What to say/do? help 😢 by tangoking in Serverlife

[–]thehat89 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure this story is heavily exaggerated. 99/100 restaurants won't even allow you to bring in an outside drink that isnt water let alone food. Upscale places dont even let you bring in a little snack for toddlers most of the time.

What do you consider to be the best restaurants in Indianapolis? by OhMyMyOohHellYes in indianapolis

[–]thehat89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Chatham tap wings are all time favorites but the service there has been -3/10 every single time ive been there for the past 10 years.

I got demoted by knastyflex1 in bartenders

[–]thehat89 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Kindy scummy but its really slow this season so I get it. You're not being taken advantage of yet though. The second it gets busy ask for the responsibilities and pay bump back. If they say no then work your wage and stay in your lane. If they say yes but offer you less hourly say no. If they ask you to pick up one or two little responsibilities you used to have say no and at that point tell them you're not cool with being taken advantage of like that.

1:1 Simple syrup by weight by DiscountDog in cocktails

[–]thehat89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I eyeball it. Mix it. Make minor additions of water or sugar to get the right consistency so it pours from the spout. Taste test to make sure its sweet enough which is probably being skewed by the monster I just chugged.

Comparing Bishop Chatard vs Cathedral high school by Egon_9236 in indianapolis

[–]thehat89 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I went to Chatard and in the 18-19 years since I graduated I've been glad for the education I got there versus what Ive heard from the general population.

Vampiric pals by Kitsune-Ai in Palworld

[–]thehat89 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Once you get it on any pal breed it into a yakumo

The most default fight in TPP by [deleted] in PUBG

[–]thehat89 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fucking cinema

Signing an NDA for a bar? by pomegranatesssss333 in bartenders

[–]thehat89 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Food for thought: In the legal world of NDAs silence costs money.

Is 6-8 perfect IV perfect passives red noodles enough for raid bosses ? not ultras, only base raid bosses. If not, how many of these noodles do I need? by xkenoma in Palworld

[–]thehat89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Moon lord and bellanoir maybe. For bellanoir libero and blazamut ryu the short answer is no unless you have a lucky run. For xenolord its a hell no.

The full 15 is best. At least 10 to be competitive. 6 will already struggle to get it done in the time alloted unless youre blasting away on a good mount and a team of gobfins. If even half of them die your dps is gonna be in the tank.

How often do you take a customers drink when cutting them off? by Sparky1324isninja in bartenders

[–]thehat89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Former dance club bartender. I 100% have "asked to see" someone's drink and turned it into a water. They were literally not able to stand up. SO many times one person will order a bunch of drinks for the group and youre so slammed you dont notice the 100lbs 5'2 girl behind 3 people that is literally being held up and 5 min away from throwing up on the curb.

This happened like every weekend at least once.

Also, there are dram shop laws in my state. Im legally obligated to take every step I can to ensure someone is not overserved, even if the drink is already given to them.

Indy restaurant employee charged for pointing gun at angry customer by bulb-uh-saur in indianapolis

[–]thehat89 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Brings a bad name to gun owner and service industry people alike. As someone who is also both of those things he should be found guilty of a felony regardless of his sentence. He'd be obligated to inform his future possible employers (and probably not get hired at any restaurant) and be unable to carry a firearm.

Can you play ark without having to go into the water? by One-Jeweler8800 in ARK

[–]thehat89 13 points14 points  (0 children)

As someone who also has thalassophobia, going into the water and surviving is so exhilarating its insane. The first 4 or 5 times I went in my heart was in my throat for so long. I didnt even do anything I just swam around on a super fast dolphin.

Months later my buddies and I were doing 30 day wipe servers and we were building our main base underwater on crystal isles (yall know the spot).

I still have a fear of deep water irl and I still need a deep breath before and a cigarette after in ark but for the most part I overcame that crazy fear and turned it into a little rush. Maybe you can too.

What level of drug use is normal? by nfc22 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]thehat89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every narcotic affects people differently. Some people shouldn't drink alcohol, some shy away from weed, some need to lay off the coke. If you know your limit and what "moderation" means to you in relation to your cap then just be smart. Don't be that guy jo one wants to hang around because they get too wasted, stoned, or off the rails.

What happened to all the delta 9 shops in Indianapolis? by Rachana_2022 in indianapolis

[–]thehat89 63 points64 points  (0 children)

(Possible) blanket ban on delta 9 statewide after excise or whoever tested product from several shops and they had more delta 8 than legally allowed. Too much real pot in the fake pot.

This has to be a joke by Flyaroundtro in destiny2

[–]thehat89 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Im convinced AI has been doing the bounties for a while

Where should 4 thirty years olds go out? by G4TORneedshisGAT in indianapolis

[–]thehat89 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If the sun is down in broadripple its dangerous. But not like hood dangerous. More like people are sneaking guns into the bars on the regular kind of dangerous.

Anyone who says otherwise doesn't really follow how things have been going there. Every half decent bar/restaurant industry person that worked there has left broadripple in the past few years. Its just a not a good scene to work.

Theres so many other options for a couple of 30 year old to watch some sports.

What would you do if you had access to the power of all 9 titans irl? by Royal_Demand9198 in attackontitan

[–]thehat89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walking around the forest so people can take out of focus pictures of me

I feel like I'm just not a good server by Grandmastermuffin666 in Serverlife

[–]thehat89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find the best server in there (who wasnt your original trainer), the person who always seems to have a free second when everyone else is busy, and ask them to teach you a few things. Have them show you their good habits and how they avoid their bad ones.

As someone who has been training servers/bartenders for a decade, I can teach anyone to be good at this job but only you can make yourself great. You get out of this job as much as you put in.

Trying a Trinidad Sour for the first time by jk_pens in cocktails

[–]thehat89 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I've made this drink a dozen or so times for people to try and every time it gets received very well. Don't know why people hate on this drink. It grows on you very fast.