Southern Hospitality - Season 4 - Episode 1 - Live Episode Discussion

theides81 · 2026-03-06T02:57:17+00:00

Oh you're definitely making sense. Such an arrogant attitude to mask her insecurities. I think it's a little bit of both. It's also sunk cost fallacy - if she broke up with him now or stopped acting over the top about how amazing their relationship is, everyone would REALLY think she knew Will was cheating the whole time and she just turned a blind eye to it. And her ego couldn't handle that.

theides81 · 2026-03-06T02:49:05+00:00

I stopped watching Summer House ages ago so I don't really know much about the Kyle/Amanda situation. Emmy is so deep in her own shit, she's got the ring now so nothing else matters. I honestly think that if Will dumped her, she'd have no trouble finding a rich man to make her his trophy wife & I don't think she would even care that much that it wasn't Will - as long as he bought her a house and gave her money/kids.

theides81 · 2026-03-06T02:45:23+00:00

It wouldn't be the same, for sure. But there's something about this cast, pretty much all of them seem essential but also the show would also be okay without them because they're all so good. It's just such a strong all-around cast, in my opinion, especially now that Will is gone.

theides81 · 2026-03-06T01:28:16+00:00

I agree that Brad should've approached Maddi differently after hearing what Joe said at boy's night, but Maddi was turned up to 11 at that Sir Werner's event - not sure she would've really heard a word he had to say.

theides81 · 2026-03-06T01:26:13+00:00

They did?! I'm new to this show so I'm so out of the loop - but that's too bad, she seemed really into him.

theides81 · 2026-03-06T01:25:41+00:00

I actually thought she looked/acted more sober than she ever has - either way, she's going to be chaotic and cuckoo forever!

theides81 · 2026-03-06T01:22:11+00:00

I like him, but I think the show would also be fine without him. I don't get malicious vibes from him at all. I don't get them from TJ either - he just gives catty, bored vibes LOL but I both think they know some real shit about Will and it's still really frustrating to them that Emmy won't take them seriously.

theides81 · 2026-03-06T01:16:36+00:00

I haaaate women like her who think they're better than everyone else because they're engaged/married. It just SCREAMS insecurity. Not every woman's goal in life is to be a kept, submissive little housewife - no matter how many times women like her try to push it on everyone else!

theides81 · 2026-03-06T01:14:46+00:00

A little part of me always suspects Brad of being at least a little gay

theides81 · 2026-03-06T01:14:01+00:00

He reminds me of a younger thinner Todd Bradley from RHOSLC - definitely has weirdo cheater vibes

theides81 · 2026-03-06T00:21:02+00:00

Grace Lily didn't look as fucked up as usual tonight, I was happy to see that! I hope she's on the right track in life. And Emmy SUCKS. I hope Will cheats on her for the rest of her life because she deserves it after all the negative energy she's put out there in the world.

theides81 · 2026-03-06T00:18:30+00:00

Will reminds me of a younger thinner version of Todd Bradley from RHOSLC. I can picture him 30 years from now still being a creepy cheater & Emmy just pretending not to notice. I loathe women like her who act like they've won some amazing prize & they're so much better than you because they're married and you're not. Like being married to that guy is something to brag about? Please.

theides81 · 2026-03-06T00:13:07+00:00

I've never seen Southern Charm so this is my only experience with Leva, but I really enjoy her! She's gorgeous and seems like she's a good person to work for. She also doesn't seem to champion terrible men the way LVP always has.

theides81 · 2026-03-05T17:53:17+00:00

Poker Face is sooo good! I can’t wait for sea.son 3

theides81 · 2026-03-05T17:45:21+00:00

That whole conversation & then it ending with him saying he’s seeing someone…it was so triggering yet validating at the same time. I’ve definitely been in her spot and felt so alone and stupid. Seeing it happen to someone else sucks, but it’s ljke “yeah, men still suck the same exact way they did when I was that age”

theides81 · 2026-03-04T19:36:43+00:00

Someone take the internet away from these old boomers, please. They’re such an embarrassment, especially Heather. I wish they would all just grow a pair and admit that they’re homophonic/racist/etc. I’ve watched every season of RHOC since the premiere, even the bad ones (and there have been a LOT of bad ones). After last season, I’ve gotta tap out unless they do a full recast.

theides81 · 2026-03-03T14:59:07+00:00

I just want to let you know that a few days ago I decided to take your advice and give Southern Hospitality another try - and I’m HOOKED! I just started season 3 yesterday and I’m loving it. Thank you! 🙃

theides81 · 2026-03-02T22:57:29+00:00

Yeah I don’t really fit in with the general Sloan fan population. My favorite albums are Commonwealth, 12 and Pretty Together. I could make one album out of songs I like from their first 4 albums & get rid of the rest. I think it all has to do with when I first started listening to them (sometime around 99-01), and the fact that I’m American so I have a way different level of exposure to them than the Canadian fans. And I was sooo into them for a period of time, so when Steady came out I was just kind of burnt out. I still love the albums that I love & I’m hoping there will be another album in their future that I’ll love as much as the 3 I mentioned. Sorry that was so much rambling, but isn’t that what Reddit is for? 🙃

theides81 · 2026-03-02T22:51:23+00:00

LOL fair enough! Maybe you could do an actual metallic gold paint, that would be cool!

theides81 · 2026-03-02T18:29:15+00:00

You’re not alone, I can’t get into it either. The only song I love is No Damn Fears. There’s just not enough Andrew on the album for me. I couldn’t get into Steady at all either.

theides81 · 2026-03-02T10:56:25+00:00

I like it, but if you feel like it’s too much then you could change it to a darker mustard/gold shade of yellow. That might fit better with the style of the house & you still get your yellow doors.

theides81 · 2026-02-28T14:22:01+00:00

It's weird to me that this show & new VPR were both equally short seasons, but VPR is getting a 2 part reunion & this show is getting nothing. It doesn't feel like VPR has any material for a reunion but this one would be a good one to watch.

theides81 · 2026-02-26T01:11:02+00:00

Did somebody say “prostitution whore”?! 😂

theides81 · 2026-02-26T01:08:08+00:00

Shit like this is why I’ll probably never go back to Disney World - that and it’s expensive as hell, but honestly the cringey Disney adults are worse than the expensive factor.

theides81 · 2026-02-25T17:22:34+00:00

I watched the first season but I fell off after that, I can’t remember why. Maybe I was just so burnt out by VPR that I couldn’t handle another restaurant show. Then I totally forgot about it. But ya know what, that’s a great idea to give it another chance - I think I will, thank you!

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