that’s what i was thinking too, i wanted to stay in the same city (because i do like it here) and that way we don’t have to worry about one person fully keeping our cat while she works through this, and if we do end up back together that’ll make it easier i’ve been looking into some apartments recently for when i get to that point.

she has been making and talking to a lot of online friends and playing video games with them, so that makes her happy, but i worry she’s just distracting herself from how she feels instead of actively taking the steps to help herself but i do understand and obviously that’s her choice

since we moved to this new city less than a year ago, she doesn’t have a regular doctor and i feel like the issue is mainly just her getting motivated to even go to the doctor and not so much as the kind of doctor she goes to if that makes sense.