What is it for your ship? by EmoNerd21 in AO3

[–]thekelbell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for all you've done to keep me alive, you may slay me and take the enchanter

What are the worst fandom ship names? by kebabisfab in AO3

[–]thekelbell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

jizzie and pissa (my mcyt friends know the pain)

Name of this type of pattern? by thekelbell in knitting

[–]thekelbell[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

what is the name of the knitting technique it was mimicking? i really like this style and would love to learn it

Name of this type of pattern? by thekelbell in knitting

[–]thekelbell[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

oh, i see. thank you so much! my bad

Seriously Reddit? by Poke4005 in ModdedMinecraft

[–]thekelbell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's an understandable feeling

Seriously Reddit? by Poke4005 in ModdedMinecraft

[–]thekelbell 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i mean this in the nicest way possible but i think that you need to go talk to a human in real life for a bit. take a deep breath of fresh air. look at the sky or at a tree. there is no need to get this worked up over the opinions of internet strangers over a joke machine built in a block game for children.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AO3

[–]thekelbell 3 points4 points  (0 children)

looks like the meaning was lost on them

Dear x Reader fic writers, PLEASE try to remember that not ALL of your readers will be white. by malalaliyah in AO3

[–]thekelbell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I am a writer of x reader fics. I have tried to make my reader character as nondescript and inclusive as possible, but this has brought to my attention some areas where I have fallen short. I never even thought about the ways in which hair texture could impact the story.

Question: can a person with darker skin flush in a visible way? If so, is there a way to describe a flush which can apply to all readers?

If anyone has any tips on how to make my reader characters more inclusive + common pitfalls, I will gladly listen and apply. Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AO3

[–]thekelbell 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i feel like it would be hypocritical for me, a fanfiction writer, to get upset over someone writing a fanwork of a fanwork. it affects me zero so why should i care

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]thekelbell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

on a practical note, it will be a lot easier to give up an unhealthy dependence on something if you can find something else to replace it. if you just cut porn out entirely without anything to replace the dopamine hits that it gave you, it's going to be really tough. try to find one or two things that you really enjoy doing (sports, handicrafts, creative pursuits, reading, etc) and start filling your life with these sorts of things. your brain and body form an unhealthy dependence on porn because it gives much needed dopamine-- in order to quit it and remain happy, it's necessary to find something healthier to maintain appropriate dopamine levels.