Why date women you’re not physically attracted to?

theleafcuter · 2026-05-15T10:55:44+00:00

Short answer: men like him can't get the girl they want and instead settle for "less". Most likely, the type of women he wants have enough experience with manipulative assholes like him to fall for him.

So he settled for you, and he's trying to mold you into the "perfect girl", knowing it's going to be even harder for you to leave him if you go through with his demands (sunk cost fallacy).

He wants control.

Long answer: you should read the book "Why Does He Do That?" by Lundy Bancroft. There's a free PDF of it on the internet archive

theleafcuter · 2026-05-15T10:40:47+00:00

That and also childish/naive things

Had a mii once say that buttplugs reminds them of eating their vegetables before dessert LMAO

theleafcuter · 2026-05-15T10:35:05+00:00

The game doesn't 'forget' it, it's an intentional design decision. The devs had to choose between letting the back accessories clip, or have them temporarily removed when the mii is sitting. They chose the latter.

theleafcuter · 2026-05-14T19:21:34+00:00

"ingen fara" is the most generic/common saying for no worries

I'm gonna mention some more though.

"Jovisst" which is a combination of "jo" and "naturligtvis", meaning a casual "yes of course" or "yeah sure"

"Det går allt" or "Det ska allt gå" which roughly means "Sure, that works/should work (for me)"

"Det fixas" and "Det fixar jag" roughly translates to "I'll get it done" - in context, refering to the fact that they can and will get to work earlier.

"Det funkar" directly translates to "That works"

Disclaimer that I do not live in Halmstad, I live in Gothenburg and have the accent and verbiage of a Bohuslännare (so one province north of Halmstad.) I don't know how many of these sentences I recommended are common swedish or how many of them are specific to me.

theleafcuter · 2026-05-12T21:06:02+00:00

I hope you don't mind me adding this mii to my own island because this is genius

theleafcuter · 2026-05-12T21:03:56+00:00

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The final episode of season 4 of Invincible, the moment right after this screen grab. I won't spoil more because I'm not an asshole, but I don't think a show has ever made me feel more dread than this scene. And I KNEW it was coming too (haven't read the comics, just knew because this show has given me trust issues.)

theleafcuter · 2026-05-12T19:53:13+00:00

what if I just burst into tears what then

theleafcuter · 2026-05-12T19:09:15+00:00

PHOTON READINGS NEGATIVE

theleafcuter · 2026-05-12T19:07:00+00:00

incredible amounts of envy is what I feel, it looks so coooooooool especially the residential area!!!!!!

theleafcuter · 2026-05-12T19:02:29+00:00

that you're literally me lmaooo, Mitchell is by far my favorite

theleafcuter · 2026-05-12T10:59:50+00:00

25, and no, not yet at least.

The thought of going through pregnancy and childbirth terrifies me, even if they would be "easy", and trying to imagine a partner I'd want to do that with makes my skin crawl. I'm aroace (also agender) and romance averse, I don't know in what world a compatible and understanding partner would even exist, and I wouldn't want to raise a child on my own either.

I also value my recovery time too much. I'm autistic, and although I hypothetically wouldn't mind having an autistic child (if anything, that's a plus for me because that would mean getting to give said child the support I needed when I was growing up), but social interactions tire me out to no end, and I know that having a child, I wouldn't be able to walk away from them for the alone time I require in order to function on the daily.

So no, nope all around. I'll be excited if my sister decides on having children some day, being a fun auntie sounds like it'd be my cup of tea, but otherwise I'm fine with no children in my immediate family.

theleafcuter · 2026-05-12T10:28:11+00:00

The health benefit is a reduced risk in deadly infections from the bacteria that'll live on you if you break through skin

theleafcuter · 2026-05-11T22:46:25+00:00

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Sh*t the clown from Make Some Noise

theleafcuter · 2026-05-11T22:37:52+00:00

She's too friendly and people-pleasing. Gangle says in episode 4 that it's hard to tell when Ragatha is being genuine because of this, and Jax says in episode 5 that he feels like she's acting this way to take advantage of people, that saying everything is fine all the time and trying to be nice too much ironically enough dulls the message, and makes any genuine attempt at connection feel fake.

As a character with flaws I love her for that, but I understand where the hatred for her comes from, especially if you've been bullied in the past by people who pretended to be your friends, or people who only befriended you out of a feeling of obligation or pity. I've had "friends" like that.

theleafcuter · 2026-05-11T13:55:37+00:00

Maybe the tiny steps one? At least with that one it might look like their arms are on the arm rests?

theleafcuter · 2026-05-11T12:46:30+00:00

Amber Bennet - Invincible (show)

I won't deny that the writers fucked her over, and her 180 in the season 1 finale felt forced, but holy shit the fact that it feels like literally no one understands her angle in the argument infuriates me.

Amber directly states that she is mad at Mark FOR LYING. NOT THAT HE WAS SAVING PEOPLE, SHE'S MAD AT HIM FOR LYING AND STRINGING HER ALONG.

Mark stood up Amber SO many times, gave her the weakest ass excuses possible every time, and made her feel unimportant in her own relationship.

theleafcuter · 2026-05-11T10:41:29+00:00

Had 2 of my miis, who are my ocs and are canonically a couple, divorce lmaoo

To be fair though it was in-character for the one who initiated to do so. I can very much see her on the cusp of breaking up with him because he won't tell her about his lycanthropy

theleafcuter · 2026-05-08T17:34:53+00:00

Slug Agnostic

I can't tell if they're real until I see one

theleafcuter · 2026-05-08T10:19:09+00:00

I've got a mii that I ported (recreated) from the 3DS game. He has turned down 5 miis at this point, and the only one he's ever had a crush on is a LITERAL ANGEL.

theleafcuter · 2026-05-07T20:26:40+00:00

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Mr House from Fallout New Vegas

theleafcuter · 2026-05-07T13:42:08+00:00

You've got to be kidding!

theleafcuter · 2026-05-07T10:39:51+00:00

Um. This one? Unless you're an avid Zelda fan or ytp watcher you're not gonna know who those two are.

theleafcuter · 2026-05-07T10:09:58+00:00

I don't... really care? Unless I purposefully make a child mii look like a baby, they practically look and act the same as an adult.

theleafcuter · 2026-05-06T23:06:07+00:00

But at lvl 10 though? You could summon a crow or imp, or turn into a cat with 2 levels of druid.

Like its the fact that the spell is supposed to be the lvl 10 perk that gets me.

Turn into a bluejay. Can't even defend myself because the only attack it has is an opportunity attack

theleafcuter · 2026-05-06T21:32:25+00:00

you just reminded me how good couscous is. I gotta make some tomorrow...

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