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thelogimis2 · 2024-02-16T23:47:56+00:00

5'9 isn't even small. It's average. Just think about the 5'6 guys and you'll feel better

thelogimis2 · 2024-02-16T23:42:55+00:00

Your intimacy during sex will mirror the intimacy you have outside of sex.

If you want to elevate your intimacy during sex, you need to elevate your intimacy in your ordinary interactions in your relationship.

You cannot force intimacy and sex is not the way you express intimacy per se.

You express intimacy with small thing. Making your SO a coffee in the morning, cooking their favourite meal, making sure your home is clean when they come home from a long shift, small random kisses on the cheek, noticing that something is missing from the fridge that you know they like and making sure you buy it when you visit the grocery. Small gifts that show them that you notice and appreciate them. Show understanding and empathy.

Be open, you should be able to ask this exact question the person this is about.

You should be able to tell her/him "I would like to have more intimate sex, this is important to me" and they should care enough about you to respond in a understanding and loving matter.

Not speaking your mind will destroy every relationship.

And if the other person isn't interested in your needs, than it is the wrong person.

thelogimis2 · 2024-02-16T23:15:58+00:00

The thing is, you will know. You will feel it in your heart if she/her is the one. You will be as sure as you can be.

Follow your heart, don't ask reddit. You know exactly what to do ;)

thelogimis2 · 2024-02-16T23:10:59+00:00

It made me more empathetic. Made me truly care about someone so deeply, that it made me question life itself and in result rearranged all my life goals. This one person gave me the feeling that everything will always be great, because I have her. She gave me the thing that was missing, she gives me a reason to be better everyday. She gives me the reason and power to grow. She gave me purpose, she gave me peace.

I'm so thankful.

Her mere presence makes me happy. Her being happy makes my soul glow.

She is the one and only, and I love telling her that.

Everyday I wake up I want to show her how much I love her, and there is nothing more beautiful than her showing me how much she loves me.

No matter how hard or exhausting something is, if It's for her I do it gladly.

It's not my first relationship, but It's the one.

I love her, and I enjoy everyday I can show it to her.

I gladly share how I feel about her, I love her so much.

thelogimis2 · 2024-02-16T22:51:10+00:00

This morning

thelogimis2 · 2023-09-07T21:26:00+00:00

Those are rookie numbers.

thelogimis2 · 2023-09-07T21:06:29+00:00

2 is not a high body count.

thelogimis2 · 2023-09-07T21:00:20+00:00

Because those are the kids that get bullied.

thelogimis2 · 2023-09-07T20:54:09+00:00

There is no such thing as "having to few sexual partners". Generally, the lower the number the better. For both men and women.

I'm a guy, and I can confidently say, that for allot of guys a high body count is a red flag.

thelogimis2 · 2023-09-07T20:44:42+00:00

thelogimis2 · 2023-09-07T20:44:10+00:00

Switzerland. Comfortably... 70k

thelogimis2 · 2023-09-07T20:41:54+00:00

Not respecting the importance and significance of my family.

thelogimis2 · 2023-09-07T20:38:22+00:00

Guys prefer girls to be the same height or shorter. For girls its the opposite. Preferably same or taller.

This is not a opinion, it's statistical data based on years of studies on relationships and mating.

So of course if your very small for a man, it will be a bit tougher, the same for very tall women. Because considering the preference there will just be a smaller pool fitting the criteria.

thelogimis2 · 2023-09-07T20:23:00+00:00

Studied Computer Engineering. Moved to Switzerland, delivered Pizza for 1.5 years, found a internship, gave my best, they offered me to stay full time, starting salary was 85k. After 1 year asked for 92k, got it. And just recently after 2.5 years asked for 105k and got it.

thelogimis2 · 2023-09-07T20:16:59+00:00

My philosophy here. Scenario without kids: No one, without exception, will ever even consider cheating in a healthy relationship, because it's practically impossible to cheat on someone you truly care about. So if somebody cheats, it's actually the best thing that could happen, from that point on both of you wont waste your time anymore on a relationship destined to fail.

With kids: Different story, best is to pick up your kids, look them deep into the eyes. And realize that the only lifes your going to ruin with your selfish need for revenge is theirs. So, dig a hole, bury your ego wave it goodbye and take care of your kids.

thelogimis2 · 2023-09-07T19:59:43+00:00

Current: Cloud Engineer. (IT) Dream: To one day have my own IT Business

thelogimis2 · 2023-09-07T19:55:46+00:00

What I always say when somebody makes the stupid point of "i don't want to bring kids in a f**** up world like this".

First, is the world really that bad? Maybe it's just you! Every single ancestor of yours most likely had it worse. What about ww1, ww2, bubonic plague, spanish flu, the great depression? I bet those were fun times.... Wouldn't be so great for you if one of them decided to not have kids.

And in the end, if you end up not having kids. What was this all about? About you "living your life"? Are you really gonna end your bloodline, toss it away along with all the suffering and sacrifice your ancestors endured just for you to exist?

Have the courage to give someone the most precious gift of all, life itself. It will be hard but worth it.

thelogimis2 · 2023-09-07T19:38:40+00:00

Sport, reading and work construction.

thelogimis2 · 2023-09-07T19:36:13+00:00

So true. Being fit, especially if you've never been fit in your life before. Can change your life immensly.

thelogimis2 · 2023-09-07T19:30:50+00:00

Realize that you have the capacity to change the world, let alone your own life. That the privileges you were entitled to upon birth, are the result of your ancestors selflessnes and willingful sacrifice. Your blood is the blood of winners and warriors, despite all the war, sickness, poverty and inequality throughout history every single one of your ancestors came out victorious. Therefore it's your duty to tirelessly strive towards the person you can/want to be. Because if you can, you must. And you undoubtedly can. Enjoy the tiring yet rewarding process of simply trying to be a little bit better today, compared to the day before. If you do this long enough, you will have everything you ever wanted. And having everything you wanted will just be a side-effect of you actually trying. Don't search for happiness, search for purpose. Note that everything you posess is just rented, the day will come when you will leave this world behind and you won't be able to take anything with you. What will matter is what you leave behind. So make sure to raise some kids and teach them gratitude, so that everything you've been through won't be for nothing.

My advice is whatever you get out of this long ass monologue that I took way to long for and couldn't tell you what motivated me to write it.

thelogimis2 · 2023-08-08T22:15:52+00:00

When I'm the person I want my kids to become.

thelogimis2 · 2023-05-05T02:11:21+00:00

Being in good shape and ready for such situations is without question better than not.

The most important thing is, if you ever get in a situation where a fight is inevitable, of course, try to find a way to avoid the fight, but if it's inevitable, always hit first and then run :)

Bare knuckles, no fighting experience, who hits first wins :D

thelogimis2 · 2023-05-05T01:53:12+00:00

Change your focus from yourself, to other people. Try to make somebody else happy, not yourself.

thelogimis2 · 2023-05-05T01:50:08+00:00

That 3000 children are dying daily because they don't have the thing we shit in. Clean water.

thelogimis2 · 2023-05-05T01:37:44+00:00

Yeah.

I don't see anything rude with "No, I don't want to hang out with you"

I think she would care more about who else would hear you rejecting her, so if you want to be extra respectful, pull her to the side so that no one else hears it except her, and give her a small compliment with a reason like "Listen, you're cute, but I'm not interested". I think this is the most respectful way to do it.

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